she just aksed for your advice about how she felt...you cant tell her she isnt bi-sexual, you know nothing about her. it doesnt matter your age or experiance. am i right or wrong about this. your feelings are how you feel right??
2006-08-18 19:18:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let me explain..a girl on here earlier thought she was bi-sexual. and everyone on here said no you cant be its not right, you just need to grow up. i just dont understand how ppl can judge someone just because of there age or what ever. ppl should be able to have there own feelings. weather its against the bible or not.
2006-08-18 19:29:44 · update #1
Well, the feeling of wanting to be with someone of the same sex and still being attracted to the opposite sex is pretty much the street definition of bisexuality: Sexually attracted to both males and females.
Bisexuality is a broad range of desires and/or actions. Is a person bisexual if he or she only participates in sex for monetary gain? Many straight men say they'd rather starve but who knows unless the situation comes up. Likewise, most people say they'd never "go gay" in prison but still desperate people do desperate things.
We can't look into another person and determine where they are on the sexual orientation spectrum. I don't have a magic crystal ball to tell me if she is bi or not. However, I do have her own words which suggest that she does have some occasional same sex feelings. I do believe that I can use my own experience to say that I've never heard of someone complain of bisexual urges who was not bisexual.
I feel bad for the girl who asked if is bi because her feelings were dismissed by several answerers. She deserves acceptance for all of her feelings even if some other people would not accept it if she acted on some of those feelings. I wish she could know that she will be loved whether she is straight or bi or lesbian or even if she is completely asexual.
2006-08-18 19:49:22 · answer #1 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she likes women. My ex was a bisexual girl. So she thought! Ur question really dont make that much sense. How she felt about what? U need to be a lil bit clearer. And yes, but emotions can be controlled.
2006-08-19 02:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by beerdrinker3423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I said she can do whatever she wants as long as she's safe and legal. I hate how caught up in labels everyone is. People very rarely are 100% anything when it comes to sexuality.
2006-08-19 02:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk us through it... why do you think your friend is bi? it's natural for girls to think other girls are pretty, beautiful, or even hot. My girl friends and I kiss on the cheek everytime...
2006-08-19 02:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brownie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-19 02:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by OceanBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her.
2006-08-19 02:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by rj_pebs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? who are you?
2006-08-19 02:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by lilmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. [][][] r u randy? [][][]
2006-08-19 02:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋