this is the problem. i live in a different state than my baby momma
if she has this baby and then has to go overseas for a year because of a job.
do i get full custody of the child. she was gonna try to leave the baby with a friend
she doesnt want me to have FULL
but with the situation since iam the father and the fact that she cant watch the kid
do i auto matically get full if not how hard would it be for me to get full custody
2006-08-18 19:17:59 · 9 answers · asked by internet_mack 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
my boyfriend is going through the same crap with his babies moma...there is a place in Cali I don't know where your from but it's Daddy's rights...and they help you figure things like that out and in most cases it's free we are still learning about it ourselves.
2006-08-18 19:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by lilmiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is leaving and can not care for the child then by you being the biological father you have first rights unless she can prove that you are a unfit father and for as had to get full custody it all depends on the situation and the parents she does have to be unfit to a point and u might be able to get full custody due to abandonment , i mean i know she is not abandoning the child be she is in a way taking a job elsewhere and not being able to take her child with her is saying that she is picking a job over her child but like i said it all depends on the situation i would deff. get a lawyer
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-19 02:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do need an attorney! A lot will have to do with your state's family codes, etc. and to some degree your backgrounds, histories, ability to care for a child... etc. All of these questions should be addressed to an attorney specializing in child custody and with the correct jurisdiciton for the child.
2006-08-19 02:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you got yours **** together you would be chosen over the friend. She might be worried about giving you full custody. What will happen when she gets back and you will not allow her to see the child. Maybee finding a solution to those fears will solve your problem.
2006-08-19 02:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by sabina-2004@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think she would have to have the baby first before I would worry about getting a lawyer.
Leave the baby with a friend for a year???????????
I would also seek a paternity test.
2006-08-19 02:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend if you have a job? Can you provide for the child's well-being? Do you have criminal records? Do you own a house? Do you have a good living style in general....Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-19 02:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by KC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need a lawyer...But it depends on if you can show that you have the means to support this child.
2006-08-19 02:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bo Beeta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With a question and spelling like that ,,,let the friend watch the kid
2006-08-19 02:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple, if all else fails, seek refue in the nearest church. trust me all is well then.
2006-08-19 02:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋