What should my girlfriend and I do if her parents don't want us dating. Her mom don't want us dating cause she know's we had sex and her dad don't know cause he (is 6'5" and weighs 330lbs) would kill me if he would know but he's mad at us both cause he thought we did something at Wal-Mart cause he couldn't find us when he went looking for us which is really stupid so now I can't see her anymore unless we sneak so what should I do.
2006-08-18 19:17:10 · 11 answers · asked by hot_flame_3000 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Were both 16 and her parents mistreat her well her dad does cause he wont let his wife have a job, a license, or leave the house to go on vaction and if my girlfriend does something wrong thats not of a big deal her dad will hit her and her mom wont do a damn thing about it. And thats why her sister moved out when she just hit 18 she moved out and she went through the same problem as my girlfriend so I think her dad has a thing against women cause my girlfriend has found letters of him cheating on his wife and his wife knows and wont leave him cause he is the only one with a joba and is making the money so tell me how in the world am I going to talk to her parents when her dad is mad at me as well and her mom wont even do anything so..... My girlfriend and I have no choice but to sneak cause her dad wont listen and he is dumb as a box of rocks cause he really doesn't think we've had sex so he don't really know. So what can I do about this please help.
2006-08-19 15:55:49 · update #1
You guys sound like you really love eachother. But if your parents don't want you dating then just take a break not see eachother for a while or if you want to see eachother then see eachother not as often
2006-08-18 19:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You both need to level with her parents, tell them that you care about each other and that you want to be together. Sneaking around is fun at first but it gets old fast. If you can be honest about your relationship with your family then you probably shouldn't be in it. Just talk to them and share your concerns.
2006-08-19 08:22:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. my HUSBAND and i went thru the same exact scenario when we were dating. My mother wouldn't let us see each other because she thought he had done something he really hadn't. We snuck around and saw each other anyway because we were in love. All i can say is if u honestly see this relationship going somewhere and its not gonna b a waste of ur time then continue to see her anyway... after a while the parents will have to except that ur not going anywhere anytime soon!!!
2006-08-18 19:28:20 · answer #3 · answered by manda_gardner 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Apparently the girl lives with her parents and she is underage. You aren't wanting to just date their daughter but breed their daughter. Are you using protection/birth control? How old are you? You think her daddy doesn't know? I'll bet he does. They probably don't want a pregnant unmarried daughter.
You should respect her parent's wishes. That would be the adult thing to do.
2006-08-18 19:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by MoonWoman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both must sit down and talk to mom and dad and explain that you love each other and to rember when thay were young . I delt with the same thing when i was young
2006-08-18 20:51:30 · answer #5 · answered by sirmichael8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's every parents responsibility to protect their daughter(s) from sex maniacs. you need to respect the parents; let them know you and their daughter like eachother, tell them you are serious about the relationship, and that you'd like them to give you a chance to get to know you better. impress them, but not to the extreme where you are embarrassing yourself; be natural.
you both sound like you are young, like under 18 years of age...
and young man, don't "sneak" to do anything behind her mom and dad's back, things'll get tougher on your relationship with her.
2006-08-18 19:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shouldn't have had sex in the first place...your choice but my advice...try to get close to her parents...have dinner with them or go out together...make sure her parents know that your a gentleman...be friends with them and they'll allow the relationship
2006-08-18 19:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Answers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just sneak around. we all did it one time or another. Her parents probably experience the same when growning up.
2006-08-18 19:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by *ICE* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say if you really care about her to try to discuss it maturly with her parents hey you never know they just might understand they were young once too
2006-08-18 20:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel this all depends on ya/lls age how old are u ?
2006-08-18 19:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋