i have always found womans bodys more attractive then a mans. and have been with a few during my life time. i am still very much wanting to have sex with woman. and all of my realationships with men have failed. does this mean im gay? and are there any support groups out there?
2006-08-18 18:54:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you may just be bi-curious...don't know of any groups though? Good luck!
2006-08-18 18:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your question you don't mention how you feel about men, just that your relationships failed. My question to you is are you physically attracted to men? If not then most likely you are a lesbian. Speaking from experience, being a lesbian does not mean that you are totally NOT attracted to men, it just means that you would rather have physical contact with women. I suggest you explore your sexuality, (safely of course), and once you find the right person, (male or female), you should go for it. Good luck
P.S. There are plenty of support groups out there that can help you. Do a search on the web for "gay support groups" and you should get something.
2006-08-18 20:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by yasmin v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had to laugh when I saw your question , sounds exactly like me .
I say follow your heart and try things out with a woman . I have had sex with a girl and it was nice. When my mom told me more about sex with a guy , I said no way Jose . I don't want a guys dick in my uterus , it sounds painful . I have a hard enough time when they put they shove stuff up there at the genealogists office. Ouch!
Just try stuff out and in yahoo ! groups there are a lot of good groups about what are going through . I might join that coming out group. I'm a undecided bi or lesbian.
2006-08-19 05:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your previous relationships with men failed doesn't mean you're a lesbian. The fact that you're attracted to women means that you're either bi, bi-curios, or lesbians. And yes, there are support groups in just about every major city. The internet is a great place to find one in your area.
2006-08-19 02:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're gay to me, i don't know what area you live in but try to find PFLAG, they can help you out a lot as far as finding support groups and your local Gay & Lesbian Community Center.
2006-08-22 16:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by ~?~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call your local gay center and other gay organizations. Also talk to a counselor. Sometimes it's good just to bounce your ideas off someone else.
You may have just picked the wrong men or you may have been supressing your desire for women when you dated the men.
Either way, good luck.
2006-08-21 23:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and some naughty fun with fun a woman. You'll probably like it. She'll be the only person that your comfortable to have sex with when you got rollers in your Hair. Personally I think the rollers would make the sex alot Hotter!!!
2006-08-18 19:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you could be gay or maybe just bisexual the only way to find out is to have a relationship with a female and yes lots of support groups look for the specifics on line
2006-08-18 19:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by elmo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
try beign with a woman for a bit. dating one, etc. and always go with your heart. Dont let society's feelings about gays keep you from being one.
Maybe you're just bi-curious? try dating a woman. we're much friendlier!
ll good luck and have fun.
go ahead and message me because i know alot of myspace groups that really will help you out.
2006-08-18 19:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you might be, but you may not be, you can have control over yourself. A woman cannot sexually satisfy another woman. Love a man that loves you and get married. Youll be happier with your life
2006-08-18 19:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can join the Yahoo group "Coming Out".
2006-08-18 19:05:51 · answer #11 · answered by closetcoon_fan 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋