I think I might be bisexual. Help.?

Question

Sometimes i have feelings for guys. I like girls but guys appeal to me too. I am afraid to tell anyone. What do I do?

Answer 1

follow your heart and dont ever be ashamed.

Answer 2

you are probably really cute. i wish i could help you determine your sexuality. anyway, ignore these religious "righteous" republicans. they are afraid of change and have no place in our forum. i don't know why they even visit here. it is natural. when it comes to biblical terms, read about Jonathan and David being wed in 1 Samuel 18:1-4 or Ruth and Naomi in Ruth 1:16-17. Homosexuality has been around even before Christ. It dates at least 5,000 years back and is believed to have started in Greece. It was a common practice then. Also, there is a lot of preaching about 1 Corinthians 6:9-10. That passage varies between bibles. Mine lists idolators, robbers and a whole bunch of other stuff but says nothing about homosexuality. The bible is controversial. We need a stop to these problems. Good luck.

Answer 3

First of all, you are not alone. There are many people who understand. I don't know where you are from, but see if there is a Gay Lesbian Center in your area. If you're in school, see if they have a gay group, and even if you don't want to go to a meeting, see if you can meet with a moderator/counselor. Or even on Yahoo. Just seek a safe place where you can be yourself and get comfortable before telling others. Then if you ever want to, you can tell more people. There's really not much more you can do. Contact me if you ever want to talk; I'm RandomKirby on AIM and I'm dnnzak on Yahoo messenger.

Answer 4

You don;t have to tell anyone anything. Try being with a guy and see how you like it. If you like it better than with a girl, you may have to tella few people so you canstart being open about it and meet other guys who feel the same

Answer 5

Wish you'd put in a little more information; it's REALLY common for young people (teens and young adults) to be attracted to people of the same gender...for a while. Some of them change their minds in a few years; others don't.

Check out the PFLAG site (Parents, Family, Friends of Lesbians and Gays)---it's a national nonprofit group, and has good resources.

If you're still in high school, advise you to be extremely cautious about saying ANYTHING to your friends or classmates. It's very difficult to "unsay" things, and you could be catching flak for months or years. (Let's face it, gaybashing happens.)

Answer 6

well Jay lot boys age have same feelings as u are haven and just be care full who tell cause lot people take it different what u need to do is find someone who u can talk with that's understanding so u can let your feelings out but don't just go tell every one your feelings
and it work out my friend u taking the first step by expressing u thoughts on here
i hope this helps u out my friend u take care

Answer 7

Lots of men have an attraction to other men when they are also attracted to girls. Most never act on it to any great extent though.
Poster "Valcus43" gave you some good advice, "You told us. That may be enough." You've told somebody, even though anonymously, to a bunch of people who care. Lots of people (men included) never tell anyone and they carry this secret part of themselves to the grave with them -- with disastrous result in their adolescent or adult lives. If it continues to bother you, I suggest you talk about it with a trusted counselor if one is available to you. Hope this helps.

Answer 8

That's pretty much the definition of bisexual. You don't have to DO anything. You are under no obligation to act on any feelings for either sex nor to "come out". You may choose to be open about your orientation. You may choose to become involved with someone. I believe that these may be good things but they are entirely up to you. Trust your own judgement. You will know the right person and when to tell them. It will be awkward but you will be able to handle it if you choose the moment.

Answer 9

If you are not comfortable with having a relationship with other guy because of all the hardships you may encounter if you pursue it, then stick to girls only. You don';t have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to.

Answer 10

Understand that it is normal, you are normal, and that you are not losing your mind. Allow yourself to feel feelings for girls, and if the feelings for guys come too, allow them to come, and just let them happen. Guys with great bodies are in their sexual prime, and it's OK to appreciate it and even get turned on by it. Same with women. Just let it be, and allow your sexuality to be revealed in the good time it will take for it to happen.

Answer 11

As sunshine said, follow your heart and never be ashamed. if you are physically, emotionally, and mentally attracted to both sexes and you are sure, go with your instincts.

IGNORE "christianmom" as she is just trying to shove her "godly" religion down your throat and make you feel bad. dont listen to her.

Follow your heart and soul, and your heart and soul ONLY.

and if you have problems with your parents, just remember;
"If they can't respect you for who you are, then they dont love you"
Yes it makes them feel bad at first, but then they start to think about the way they're acting lol.

good luck and dont keep yourself up at night thinking about it, it's bad for the body... found that out the hard way with lack of sleep and falling asleep in class.