my friend is crazy over this guy..the last time she met him was in year 2005 feb, for abt 3 months ,neevr spoken to him ...after a year..she is having him around her again...but nt even as a friend..but she prays for him everyday since the day he left, that one day he will come back to her life,and she missed him every single day he was gone.she never even look at any other guy.she actually thought he has left for good bt he appeared again in her life.nowadays she prays everyday for him..i dont understand...they dont even talk to each other ...all they share is eye contact..my friends think she is silly since the guy is a very good looking guy and in her case, some people call her ugly..why do u miss someone so much even when u know he has left for good?why when u have never even spoken to him?wht should i tell her..should i ask her to stop dreaming..or is it love?tell me....
2006-08-18 18:37:25 · 9 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it could actually be love who are we to say it isn't? when me and my fiance' first met we didn't talk much but yet he fell in-love with me that first night... its 3 years later and we are still together and getting married. and hey if she was prayn and now he's coming back thats a sign honey and why does she have to be ugly? i bet he sees what is on the inside
2006-08-18 19:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by shauna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's never spoken to him, she's not in love, she doesn't know him at all. it's nothing more then a physical attraction, or maybe an idealization. He may not even know she exists. What she has is a crush. And if she wants anything to come of it, she better try to speak to him, because watching from afar and praying certainly won't get much accomplished. Rather than telling her that she doesn't love him, which will anger her, challenge her. Tell her if she loves him so much, she'll speak to him/ ask him out. something like that. See what happens. More than likely she's all talk, and won't have the nerve to do it.
2006-08-19 03:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but if they never talk just eye contact ? why don't you tell your friend to just talk to the guy eye contact can last forever, why not find out if there is something more to this relationship before your friend wastes her life with the eye stuff. not unless she loves just the eye thing if she don't want more . .
2006-08-19 01:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by twiley116 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs help. Wishing & hoping and even praying is not going to make her change reality. She should get a life.
2006-08-19 01:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a bit of an unhealthy situation to me! And it sounds more like infatuation or lust - you can't love someone without knowing them as a person.
2006-08-19 01:44:37 · answer #5 · answered by mousepotato66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but may be thats in her case well i also like someone like that and always want to talk to the person but he never refuses well just we get the less time for acompany thats it today we are near dear
2006-08-19 01:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is wrong, u can not know a person' s true love when u have not spoken to them
2006-08-19 01:42:32 · answer #7 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sign language
2006-08-19 01:41:28 · answer #8 · answered by robbybobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its infatuation..shes just obssesed with the guy..
2006-08-19 01:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by jen R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋