I need help! Lately my sister as been telling me that I masturbate while sleeping and when she tells me this in the middle of the night I have no recollection of it. It would make more sense if I had a sexually dream or something of that nature but I dont normally I can't remember my dreams or its nothing sexually. My sister and I sleep on same bed and she's starting to think that I purposely doing it while she's asleep and trying to be sneaking about it but I really am asleep, I don't know what to do. We have also tried that if I we have short play right before I go to sleep then maybe I wont do it but it still continues. Its getting to the point where I am scared to go to sleep because I am scared that we will end up arguing over it. I just want it to stop! Any suggestions??
2006-08-18 18:25:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
This happened to me during a time I was too depressed to masturbate. If you masturbate to orgasm while awake, I'm pretty sure you will stop doing it at night.
2006-08-18 18:32:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to butt out and let you sleep. Some talk in their sleep, others wet the bed!, others grind their teeth, while others still, toss and turn. What you are doing is hardly in the annoyance league of these activities so why should she care?
If it is still an issue for you then all I can suggest is that you burn off any sexual desire before bed with some serious masturbation (don't stop until you have really satisfied yourself, however many times this involves) and see if you then sleep through.
2006-08-21 04:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by patti_felz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wont pretend to be an expert...mostly because I'm male, but having worked with lots of people when I was a youth minister - I might be able to give a generic answer. People can take part in activities while asleep without even knowing it - and hard evidence is people who sleepwalk or even carry on whole conversations while they sleep. Just because it happens doesn't make it bad, but when it gets to the point that it interfere's with your sleep or how you feel about yourself - it just may be time to speak with someone. Depending on your age, I would recommend talking with your doctor about it (yes it may be hard given the fact you may need to talk to your parents, but you shouldn't have to feel scared because you cannot control an action). I can't promise that your doctor will have the perfect solution, nor would I promise that anyone has the "perfect solution," rather I can say that talking about it will help and your doctor is a person who can help you.
I'm not 100% sure what the doctor's immediate course of action will be, however you may be referred to a psychologist - where you can talk about this openly and recieve helpful feedback, ways to cope with this, and possibly even ways to prevent yourself from doing this action. Again, I'm no expert and I can only hope what I say helps somehow - but no matter what you have the right to go to sleep and not have to worry about it. You have the right to feel good about yourself and not have to worry about doing something beyond your control.
2006-08-19 01:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by sean_ahlers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she's messing with your brain. She is telling it to you on purpose to drive you crazy. Insist on getting a separate bed.
2006-08-19 01:42:27 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that every time she is asleep she farts, and it stinks up the whole room. Offer her a cork right before going to bed.LOL
2006-08-19 01:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by honeybun 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u do this because u are craving actual sexual entercourse with someone. Maybe u just need to have sex and u will stop.
2006-08-19 01:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by manda_gardner 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a another bed to sleep in.
2006-08-19 01:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
May be if she would let you finish it, than may be you'll stop. But seriously, you can try hypnosis. Sometimes people do stuff subconsciously and hypnosis can help.
2006-08-19 01:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Azazelo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get separate beds
2006-08-19 01:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i like it
and you rsister is weird or a liar
2006-08-19 02:03:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋