my boyfriend and his family are very close but they dont like me. they have said alot of hurtful things about me,so im not prepared to mend the relationship between us. im worried that it will eighther ruin my relationship with my boyfriend or ruin his relationship with his family.
i feel like it is swaying more in the direction of our relationship. can anyone give me some advise as to how i should fix this?
2006-08-18 18:20:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He will never cut the apron string, walk away. People need to understand when they have no right to interfere in someone's relationship. As long as you are not living in their households, and they are not paying your bills, and providing for your personal needs, they don't have a damn thing to say.
I can understand him maintaining respect for his family members, but they need to grow up and back off. If he cannot maturely and responsibly address how this is hurting you with them, he is not the man for you.
Just thank God you didn't marry him.
2006-08-18 18:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My in-laws acted as if they liked me then convinced their son that he was not ready for a serious commitment with me. At that time, I was 7 months pregnant with his child and we were in the process of buying a home together. He was so happy too. All he could talk about was getting married and how we were going to do this and that in our new home. But one day out of the blue, he turned on me and said, "Why are you forcing me to do things that I don't want to do?" I was in shock to say the least, because most of what we were going to do was his idea in the first place. I just don't understand men and their parents. Seems like their parents want them to be irresponsible. I recall having a similar problem like this when I was younger, only I wasn't pregnant back then. My advice, find a family who appreciates you for who you are and will treat you like their own no matter what through thick and thin, and I bet their son will treat you the same way and with the same respect. Good luck and don't look back.
2006-08-19 01:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by booboobear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely despise my in-laws. The entire bunch. That being said, I will visit them and keep my mouth shut because they are my wife's family. Don't presume that you'll be able to come between your boyfriend and his family, you shouldn't ask, and he may not let you.
2006-08-19 01:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 on ring on inlaws . 2 is aney of it true
2006-08-19 01:29:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not your in-laws, these are your boyfriends parents. Make friends with his mother and let her see that everything you do is in his best interest.
2006-08-19 01:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f*** his family who cares if they don't like you all that matters is that he does your sleeping with him not his family.also i know from experience it's his family's loss if they decide to disown him because he chooses you.that family needs to grow up.
2006-08-19 01:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOLLY,
IT DEPENDS ON UR COUNTRY, SOCIETY ETC.
pLEASE BE VERY VERY CAREFUL IN FURTHEING UR RELATIONSHIP.
2006-08-19 01:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋