2006-08-18 18:19:33 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're a dumbass - of course its wrong.
2006-08-18 18:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it's wrong for you. Apparently you have a conscience and it's hurting right now. You must remember you have to live with you and you have morals or you wouldn't be bothered whether or not it's wrong. And maybe you even have a spiriual belief that tells you it's wrong for you. We are all different and have different philosophies about "what's wrong" when we are married. If you really are having doubts about being married, perhaps you need to have a heart to heart with your spouse. She/he may be thinking the same thing. Talk about it and get it off your chest.
2006-08-18 18:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'ma tell you like a friend told me. If its not in the same area code, it doesn't count. If you can hold your sex drive while you travel, right on. However, If you're going more than a month or so without seeing your significant other, I suggest you do something before you burst. Good luck. Then again, there's always self pleasure.
2006-08-18 18:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzybinature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see. I am home all the time because my husband is traveling for months at a time. I have gotten chummy with this guy at work and we want to make it intimate....is it wrong? If you can handle her being in that situation, then maybe it's time for a divorce honey. You know cheating is wrong....have you forgotten those vows you took already?
2006-08-18 18:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn it around: Your wife has been traveling for months. She has met a friend in another city. They want to have sex. How would that make you feel?
Do unto others what you want others to do unto you.
2006-08-18 18:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Zeina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets play devils advocate- my husband travels for months at a time- I am lonely and need a good rodgering on occasion, is this wrong-It is only wrong if you are not ok with her having her needs fulfilled also.
2006-08-18 18:25:16 · answer #6 · answered by casey m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you remember these words?
Do you take this person to be your lawfully wedded wife/husband? Do you remember making a promise to that person and before God to up hold the vows of that marriage?
Also consider the feeling of the spouse if and when you get caught. If that isn't enough, consider Karma. What goes around, comes around.
2006-08-18 18:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by historybug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong. The fact that you even asked this question shows that you have no respect for your spouse or the vows that you made when you got married.
2006-08-18 18:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by Chelle_H_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its wrong. When you got married you took a vow to be faithful to your spouse. If your spouse was in the same situation as you are right now, how would you feel if he/she cheated on you. Would that be okay with you?
2006-08-18 18:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have sex with the other (I can't call her a lady, because no real lady would sleep with a married man) then you should tell you wife that you want out. Get out of the marriage first...at least give your wife that much. Remember she DOES have feelings too!!!
BE NICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 18:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by daughtry_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose:
1. Yes it's wrong.
2. Stop communicating, get a divorce, then look the person up.
2006-08-18 18:24:45 · answer #11 · answered by I Wanna Know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋