Im only 16 years old...?

Question

and i have recently for about a year have been having sexual dreams that in the end i would wake up in the middle of em having an orgasm, i dont know how to give myself one when im councious. My friends tell me im lucky, even though this happen mayve 2-3 times a week. Beause of the orgams being so tens i would sometimes have a female ejauculation, andmy sheets would be really wet, i would have to "explain"to my parents and brothers when they would see me wash my sheets that i peed on myself(my borhters would tease me about) can stop this and the embarresment cause cant explain this to them? Even though i find this satisfying, i would like it to stop or limit it for it to happen once in a while, in all seriousness do you have a solution for this?

the most embarrising thing about it is, of all nights this happened when i was sleeping over at my friends house...i wont go into detail but it was very embarrasing ;(

Answer 1

First of all your growing into a woman and body is reacting to it.Try to put on a pad before you go to bed.Dont worry it probably wont last for long.If you feel comfortable talking to your mom she will understand and might be able to come up with something else.Good-luck

Answer 2

The key to this is the fact that you are 16 years old.Like young boys (and some grown men) they have wet dreams. I'm sure you will grow out of this. How long have this been going on? since what age? I can understand cause when i was about your age I went through the samething. It only lasted a few months maybe 4 months. If it doesn't stop try a doctor.

Answer 3

just wear a pad to obsorb the wetness better. maybe buy some rubber sheets. also talk to your mom or doctor about it. to have an orgasm during the day to decrease the amount of "wet dreams" daydream about sexual situations. dont be embarresed it happens to everyone. if your brothers tease you tell them the same thing will happen in a few years or might have already happened.

Answer 4

Don't worry about it too much. program your brain to wake up before you reach an orgasm. by the way posting this here wasn't a good idea. Have u thought that your brothers or maybe even your parents might have access to yahoo answer? Your secret is out. oops.

Answer 5

If you are having sex Dreams you may want to go to the Dr. and have them do a blood hormone test on you. For you being only 16 and dreaming about it your hormone level can be extremely high for your age, which is really not uncommon.

Answer 6

You just said it....you are sixteen! You are becoming a young woman with hormones and sexual feelings. An orgasm, awake or while asleep, is a great way to reduce stress. Don't worry about it.

Answer 7

It sounds like post puberty but I'm not really qualified to speak about the woman side of that. I wish you could talk to your mom about it but I understand, everybody's parents are not open to discussion. Try [e-mail]...the guy's name is Titus James and it's confidential, very inexpensive. Good luck with that!

Answer 8

Well, I'm 16 too, and I've never had that happen to me, at all. So, I can't say that I know how you feel. But, all that I can suggest is to wear a pad at night and if it gets worse, then talk to your doctor.

Answer 9

Hey honey, Relax. I think you need to be calm and relax as much as you can . Get in bed early. Aviod seeing sexy pics ot movies before you go to bed. Do you happen to have a bf? Careful. Its time you will crave for more than you think...... You need to get some exercise etc. Care to do Yoga ?
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Answer 10

This is normal. When I was 16, I had the same problem.....go to the store, and get one of those adult diapers....and put it on at night, and this should solve your problem. I know, embarrassing, but this is the only way.