See, im going into the 6th grade and im sorta flat chested(size 32) and i think im fat but the average weight for a 6th or whatever grader is 90-100lbs. and im 87 lbs. and i have a friend that is going to the 6th grade 2 and she is a size 36 c i mean comeon others are all like 32b or 36b! im right there flatty mc flat flat at size 32 and im being made fun of becuz of it? what do i do beside beat the crap outta the next person that calls me flat chested?
2006-08-18 18:04:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
by the way im just a 32 no letter ok and im 5f 1in and weigh 87.7lbs ok im done
2006-08-18 18:29:48 · update #1
Trust me...your breasts will come. I felt the same way when I was a kid. I would see other girls with these huge boobs compared to mine and I'd feel so horrible. Their breasts will probably be really big when they get older...which can cause really bad back pain. That's never fun. I didn't really have breasts until my sophmore year in highschool...32B. Now I'm 19 and wear a 36C. I know its hard but it's not that big of a deal. Have confidence in what you have! And you are NOT fat...don't let anyone say you are. I know its hard but try to ignore the people who say you are flat chested but that's the best thing to do. Good Luck in 6th grade...and keep that head held high and your confidence in yourself! The most important love you can have is love for yourself!
2006-08-18 18:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by .vato. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No girl going into the 6TH GRADE needs to worry about what her chest size is. You're probably only 11 or 12 at the very oldest. Girls of this age shouldn't have a chest yet. I didn't have breasts yet at that age, and as an adult have a C-cup. Let your body do what it will. You can't change anything about it anyway.
87 lbs is NOT fat. You said yourself that the avg girl is 90-100 lbs at your age. You answered your own question there.
You ignore the remarks unless you want to get teased even more. If you threaten or hit another kid, you'll get made fun of even worse by the other kids, and will DEFINITELY get in trouble with your school and your parents.
Quit worrying about it. There are more important things in life.
2006-08-18 18:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what they think??I hope you dont. You should be proud of what you do have. Besides why would you want them to be much bigger so they can hurt all the time,cause it SUCKS!!!Like what you have one day you will get married and your husband will love you for you even if your flat as a board.Dont beat them up they arent worth your time.Just look at them and smile r wave,it will show that you have confidence probably alot more than they do..
2006-08-18 18:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU ARE NOT FAT!!!!
YOU WEIGH 86 LBS!
IF YOU THINK THAT YOUR FAT THEN I'M A HIPPO.
YOU ARE A NORMAL SIXTH GRADE GURL!
WHEN I WAS IN 6TH GRADE I WAS A SIZE 32 B....BY THE TIME YOUR IN 8TH GRADE YOU MATURE. BY 15 YOU GROW SOME MORE!
DON'T WORRY ABOUT.
SOME GIRLS LIKE YOUR FRIEND WITH A BIG CHEST END UP GAINING WEIGHT....OR THEY STOP GROWING THERE. JUST DON'T COMPARE YOUR SELF TO OTHER GIRLS!
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN YOU OWN WAY!
YOU DON'T NEED BIG BOOBS, EVENTUALLY THAY GET IN THE WAY AND YOU LEARN TO HATE THEM INSTEAD.
2006-08-18 18:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by ...guess.... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ur only 87 pounds and u think ur fat get some therapy........ur just petite the chest will come........and the girl in ur grade must be lie rs bout there size don't listen b/c the size is the amount around the body the cup size is diffrent
2006-08-18 18:12:56 · answer #5 · answered by newman12992 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all the # part of a bra size is how far around the band goes across the chest and the letter part is how big your boobs are...second of all if you are 87 lbs your not fat and if your 150 lbs your not fat its just the way you are and you should love who you are no matter what...everybody has their insecurities
2006-08-18 18:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by zoe r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a really good push up bra. go in for a fitting.
also, take advantage of small-chestedness by wearing tops that larger chested girls couldn't (low cut, or with embellishment at the bustline). don't go slutty though, especially if you're only in the 6th grade!
dont worry too much about boobs. they're not the only thing. try exercising every day--it will help relieve anxiety and worry about many things, including your body.
2006-08-18 18:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by mjs64ca 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about it.
When I was in the 6th grade, I was still wearing a training bra. Some of the girls in my class would sit behind me and go, "Choo, Choooo".
I am now a 36DD.
2006-08-18 18:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. Friends don't make fun of their friends' physical aspect. If it's others, ignore them or report them. It's sexual harassment when one is made to feel uncomfortable, regardless of gender.. Some girls are late bloomers. You are fine the way you are, dear.
2006-08-18 18:23:40 · answer #9 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE WHO YOU ARE! don't get sucked in to what other people THINK makes up a good person. I'm a sophomore in college and guess what? I'm a 32A and i've gone on many dates and had boyfriends and they all loved me for ME and i love me for me too. Love yourself!
2006-08-18 18:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by Me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋