Theres this girl who lives right next door to me and i REALLY like her. We hang out every day at each others houses and we are pretty good freinds. We are both 15 and are in the same grade. I want to know if she likes me anything more then just a freind. She is better looking then me (im not THAT bad to look at, im just not a 10) We hug everytime we see each other and we joke around, but she does the same thing with the other nieghbors, but she is with me more then them. She always talks about other guys in front of me like im another girl. One night we DID make out and i got to third base, but its never happened again, we dont even talk about it (is that bad??)....SO I REALLY NEED HELP!!DOES SHE LIKE ME??how do i find out?im really shy and im afraid to ask because of what she might say.
sorry this was sooo long.
2006-08-18 17:58:35 · 18 answers · asked by rocker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let her know that you like her....if she's interested, she'll let you know...if not, she'll let you know that, too. Let her know that whatever her answer, it won't be awkward for you. If she's a true friend, she won't let it be.
Dude, she made out with you....let her know you liked it!
2006-08-18 18:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tricky and no one will probably have a right answer. Just don't take any answers you find here to heart. Having said that, many great romances start off as friendships. You are both only 15 there is plenty of time for romance to develop without pushing it. She obviously cares a great deal for you or she wouldn't spend so much time in your company. Do you talk about girls in front of her? Maybe you should go out on dates with other girls, play the field and then you can share your experiences, she may just get jealous or she may encourage you OR maybe you could just try holding her hand to start off with. Her response to that should indicate what your next move might be. GOOD LUCK.
2006-08-18 18:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK speaking from experience do you really want to ruin your friendship maybe that is why you haven't talked about what happened between you guys maybe she realized that your friendship meant more cause once you start seeing each other things may not be as good as you hoped for and end hating each other so don't think to much in you getting to 3rd base trust me you will probably have alot more of those than you think good luck
2006-08-18 18:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by murkymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....I guess you could ask her in an email or Instant Message. That way you're asking, but not face to face. I find it's much easier to say things on-line than right to someones face. If you don't wanna do that, you could have a friend ask her for you. But, let me tell you that she will respect you more if you ask her yourself...either face to face or through messages (although face to face is best).
And, you're only 15, don't be in such a hurry to have sex. Take things slow and treat her right. But, If you do get back to the bases with her (or anyone else) be sure to use protection!
2006-08-18 18:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by daughtry_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that is long!lol but maaybe she doesnt bring that up again because she's afraid that if u like her 2 much, it can ruin your friendship because its easy 2 be friends 4 a long time bt when u become closer than that u see a whole nother person and u may not like them. i know i sound crazy but its sooooo true!
2006-08-18 18:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by *+*sArAh*+* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you got to 3rd base with her and she is acting like nothing happened, I would say that she has lost interest in you. Face the facts--you are just friends.
2006-08-18 18:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It SOUNDS like she might like you, but i suggest asking her, just in a casual conversation, mix it in with another topic, and then if she says "um, i like u as a FRIEND" then say, "okay, just wondering" like its no biggie, but if she REALLY does like u, she'll tell u. i wish u the best of luck!
o yea, and she probably doesn't mention "THAT TIME" because shes embarrassed!!!!
2006-08-18 18:06:59 · answer #7 · answered by Scooby Doo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, it's the only way to know for sure...It freakin' scarey...but it's better to know and stop torturing yourself...she's probably got a crush on you too...
And if she doesn't, it's okay, we've all been there, it's apart of growing up unfortunatly...
Good luck
2006-08-18 18:07:38 · answer #8 · answered by vinyl_mad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always be known as her gay neighbor.thats just the way you come across.a reall guy wouldn't ask strangers for advice.that sounds like a gay thing.congratulations on you being gay.LOL.
2006-08-18 18:06:12 · answer #9 · answered by curtismarsch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel. thats the only way to really find out
2006-08-18 18:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Keeta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋