whats wrong???

Question

in class i dont like to raise my hand to answer questions even if i do know the answer. i dont like talking to anybody except my 3 friends and when i do talk to other people it's usually just to answer a question like "did u dye your hair again?" and it's usually just a one word answer. i dont like smiling unless im around my (3) friends or somebody has to say something really funny to get me to smile. and i walk alone to classes except to pe cuz that the only class that i have one of my friends in. what do i do? whats wrong. last year i was so social but now im not.

Answer 1

School can't be that hard. Try talking to people you're interested in...whether girls or guys. If you don't respond back, they're not worth talking to. But at least you have friends to talk to, better than none.

Oh and I'd suggest you take away the anti social behavior, it draws people away from you. And smile more, it's healthy and makes you more attractive. You can be mysterious and smile a lot, that gets attention.

Answer 2

Social anxiety. If you were social before, you will be again. It sounds like a phase. Take it from someone who has been there. I went back and forth from the social butterfly to a hermit so many times for a few years. I'm pretty sure most people do and if they say they don't they are either lucky or lying.
It takes guts to admit where you are at. You will be fine, people who get stuck where you are wouldn't have posted a question about it. It sounds like you are in middle school or early high school, so don't worry about it. The more you think about whats wrong the longer you will be stuck there. Just start by changing little things in your day, smile(even if it's fake) and go out- even when you don't feel like it. When you really don't feel like raising your hand, do it. After you do it wont be a big deal. Then things will start to become easier and after a while you won't feel like you do right now. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Hi,
I hated raising my hand while I was in school, because,I didn't want to be a know it all. You know thats what "all" the kids would be thinking.So..I sat there inclass quietly ,unless a teacher asked me a question,directly.I ahd my own group of friends too,and i was like you only asking other kids one answer questions.I ,would smile, inthe hall way at other kids, especially a cute guy.
I walked with my friends to class and then go to mine ( if the classroom wasn't out of the way and i could be late).It sounds like you enjoy being alone except when you are able to be with your 3 other best friends,and i think that is great!! I think everyone should like and enjoy being by themselves without desiring company 24/7.It probally is a phase your going through,afterall,you are a woman,it is your progative...I went through so many phases when i was ia teen-ager,than college came and everything was so new..and i changed again.This will happen to you all your life.....believe me ,I am in my 40's know
(and i don't feel like,I am even 30 years old)
Do you have a male or female ,that is older than you,that you would be comfortable discussing these feelings and questions with? I hope you that you have someone special in your life that will listen to you and answer all your cares and concerns.If not,look around yourself and watch grown ups and see how they interact with your group of peers.than you will find someone that you would be comfortable talking too.
I don't think you are depressed,but only you can answer this question.Think about all that i said and thanmake a plan,and go from there.I wish you the best and e-mail me whenever if you want too.Good-luck!!!!

Answer 4

The people around you and their attitudes creates the anti-social person in you. You don't like to play the games that everyone else play. You choose not to follow the herd like all the other cows. There is nothing wrong with you. Your better off around the 3 friend you trust most.

P.S. I am the same way.

Answer 5

Did something traumatic happen between last year and this year? Did you come to sort of epiphone about something? I guess there are alot of reasons this could happen, alot of things in the world influence us to be who we are, so it's really hard to say. But as long as you are happy with your life there is nothing wrong with it. Sometimes just having 3 good close friends is better than alot of acquaintences.

Answer 6

It sounds like you are depressed! You need to find someone to talk with ....a school counselor or a mental health worker. The only other reasons I can think of why your personality has undergone such a change is 1) you're not well , 2) you are grieving over losing someone or3) you are doing drugs!

Answer 7

You're shy and so was I. I just talked and stopped caring whether or not what I said would matter to other people or if people cared about me. I took drama in Sophmore year of H.S and got more friends and lost lots of that shyness. Nothing is wrong with you.

Answer 8

You have an introverted personality. In some people, this is normal, but if this is caused by social anxiety and fear, you should seek out people to be able to learn to blend into the crowd. I know it can be hard, but it is worth it.

Answer 9

you're in a rut, feeling a little antisocial. if the problem persists for weeks and weeks talk to yoour doctor and rule out depression. if this happens a lot and you cycle up and down get tested for bi-polar disorder. most likely though you are okay, just feeling blue.

Answer 10

Your just shy and afraid of being hurt and I don't blame you but try harder to talk about common things. not long conversations just small ones and in time it will be nothing one you realize which are friends and which are not which is why you move slowly good luck, Nothings wrong.