2006-08-18 17:30:00 · 8 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the thing i would love the most about getting married is having someone to be there for me.
the thing i hate the most about getting married is giving up so much power over myself to someone else, depending on someone else for anything.
in the short run and the long run, on is never equall to the other, i'd rather be alone than give someone else that kind of power over me
2006-08-18 17:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The part I love about being married: Having some one to share my life, my thoughts, my likes and dislikes, my strengths and weaknesses with without fear of reprisal. having someone committed to me even when I'm going through the down times. Knowing that my wife will always be there for me. Having another viewpoint on the things in life we experience, that's not saying I'll always agree or sometimes even understand her view but I do value the input. There is so much more I won't take the time to expand on. And being there for her, knowing there is one person who trusts me enough that she is free to say or do anything without fear of destroying the commitments we made to each other. Having a life partner that wants the best for me and knows I want the best for her.
I won't go into the happiness that raising two great kids together gave us, that's another subject but certainly is and was a big part of the marriage. Obviously there were some hard times but they fade when compared to the good times.
What I hate???
The downside for me is: Sometimes I like to be alone and undisturbed, My wife doesn't understand that part of me, maybe since she doesn't like to be alone.
2006-08-19 01:12:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is OK -- weddings are the single biggest wastes of time, energy and money yet devised by satan himself. ALL men hate weddings. Every damn one of us. We may lie about it, but it's true. The poor groom has to endure months of watching his bride-to-be become bridezilla as she prepares for 'her' day. Yes, that's right -- the groom, (you remember, the other part of this two-part equation), is 100%, totally forgotten and dismissed from the whole charade. Oh, the bride will pretend to include him on some inane decision about what color table cloth should be on the gift table but she will quickly rip off his head and spit down his throat if he dares to give the incorrect answer. This is what kills men; we are creatures driven by logic, women are driven by emotion. Is there anything on earth more emotional and devoid of logic than a DAMN WEDDING? Answer: NO. Yet we all are forced to stand by while the whole circus is jammed up our a**. Yes, we hate weddings. They are stupid, they cause undo hardships on family, friends, finances and, yes, even marriage.
2006-08-19 00:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 types of men. The ones who wants sex with alot of women and who doesn't like to have to refer to or dictated by a woman on how he runs his life and the kind who wants the comfort and security of having a woman who loves him and stand by him all his life through ups and downs and are willing to compromise regarding his lifestyle.
2006-08-19 02:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate the idea of losing my freedom and sleeping with only one woman for the rest of my life.
2006-08-19 01:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by Tony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cowboy Bill you are the man. Best answer I have ever seen.
2006-08-19 00:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lothario 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only sleep with one women rest of your life
2006-08-19 00:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by hejhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is overated
2006-08-19 00:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋