ok, in my eyes my husband is perfect. he helps with dishes, laundry, just anything that needs to be done in the house. and before i lay down to take a nap he will massage my feet or back, or rub my hair. sometimes i wake up and he is looking at me and smiling, and sometimes when i look on the digital camera, i see pics that he took for memories of me that i did not even know about. he helps with the baby and makes bottles and does not look at other girls. we have been together for 3 years and i feel like i am the luckiest woman alive. so i was wanting to know how many of you have a spouce/boyfriend like that, and if not, would you enjoy a man like that or not???
2006-08-18 17:20:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would love it and if you ever get sick of it give me a call lol
PS any brothers???
2006-08-18 17:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by lindz2480 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband also does these things but the big difference is he takes the niceness out of it by throwing it up in my face about how much he does for me. My marriage would be perfect and I would have the perfect husband if only he didn't do that - there have been times that I feel I can walk out the door because of it. Enjoy it because let me tell you - it doesn't last. He is going to get tired of it all and thats when the fighting and accusations start. We've been married seven years. The first four were wonderful - like yours. Now I want to have a fit everytime he does something for me as I never know when it will be thrown up into my face.
2006-08-18 21:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by CLEVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a little too much obsession there, tell me how it goes when things get a little ruff. Your 3 years into your marrage young love. I've been with my husband for 16 years and we have two children. The bad times make things real. Without the bad times there are no good times unless you live in fantasy.
2006-08-18 17:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by starchild_kisschild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's beautiful. I'm wondering why you're asking. Does he have a clone or something? Are you trying to auction him off? You truly are a very fortunate woman. I can't express how great it makes me feel to know that there are men out there like your husband.
I can't imagine an emotionally healthy woman, not enjoying a man like that, lol.
2006-08-18 17:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a wonderful husband. Is there a reason you're asking this question? Your husband does everything a LOT of husbands would NEVER do...you are fortunate to have him. It sounds like he is deeply in love with you. I would hold on to him tight...it will be hard to find someone who loves you more!
Do you do those same things for him? If not, you should start...with all that he does for you...he deserves it!!!
2006-08-18 18:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by daughtry_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I have been married for seven years and together for eight. I still get butterflies when I see him walk in the room. We cannot hardly stand to be away from each other. Pretty wonderful to live like this, isn't it?
2006-08-18 17:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Helen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine is pretty darn close to that. We're not married and don't have any kids, but I know he'll be like that some day. Even now with what we do have, dishes and all that, cleaning and stuff he is always right there to help me.
He's awesome.
2006-08-18 17:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sarah Bear ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have what I call a fairy tale marriage. It is a marriage that every woman that I know would LOVE to have. A marriage made in heaven. Girl you better count your blessing that you have a man that good. A marriage and a man like that is only in my dreams. You were truly blessed!!!!!
2006-08-18 18:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really does sound like you're not happy! I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you are not satisfied with your perfect man. Mine is much like that, only a bit less active, but he's basically perfect and I'm very happy. Are you?
2006-08-18 19:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you should thank god everyday for that blessing, my husband is sweet but he doesnt rub my feet and all that other good stuff, right now he is trying to do his career.
2006-08-18 17:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You word this question as if something is not quite right in paradise and your question if we would enjoy a man like that is telling...at least it is to me. So...what's on your mind really?
2006-08-18 17:26:00 · answer #11 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋