It is my sophomore year, and I need a good way to ask girls out. In my freshman year, I asked out girls that I didn't know, which led to disastrous results. I am an attractive guy, but obviously the rapid asking out thing was my downfall. I'm straight A's, athletic and everything, but I need ways to boost my confidence :(. Any tips would really be appreciated.
2006-08-18 17:02:33 · 7 answers · asked by Gators08 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
By the way, I do have a tendency to move too fast when I talk to a girl!
2006-08-18 17:15:21 · update #1
First, grasshopper, you must be born fearless.
Second, you must never give up.
Third, you must know how to handle failure.
Fourth, your dreams will be achieved when they are ready to be achieved, and not before. Don't miss it.
2006-08-18 17:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow... If you are good looking and all you say, perhaps you are too abrupt and start off too fast. don't become the guy who acts all sly and gods gift to women, ok? hang out with friends, and have friends introduce you. If you are in a bookstore or wherever else, do something to be helpful to her, or flirt a bit and compliment her. Engage her in a question. if she warms to you, then ask her for coffee or a movie or something.
Just be easy going, compliment, be earnest and nice, lightly flirtatious. Women like to be complimented and feel safe. Don't try too hard. Let it come easily.
Best of luck! Don't worry, you will get lots of practice, and then you will become more comfortable. being comfortable is key, because then they get to see the real you, not just cheezy lines.
2006-08-19 00:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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Wishing you all the best.
2006-08-22 07:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you're an attractive guy, get straight As, and you're atheletic and "everything" why do you need something to boost your confidence?
the bottom line is that there is NOTHING that will boost your confidence except the choice that you have to make to believe in yourself.
2006-08-19 00:17:43 · answer #4 · answered by Reverend R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you do a google search to educate yourself on building your self confidence. It won't happen overnight. Hopefully you have loving parents who praise you on a daily basis. I did not. Hang in there. It will get easier as you get older. I promise.
2006-08-19 00:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by kathay 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First try to talk to some that you are not really interested in for practice, then when you have enough practice, try talking to some that you are interested in, ask them out to lunch or a movie
2006-08-19 00:15:30 · answer #6 · answered by nanc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow you sound like me!
just...be yourself. that's the best advice i can give you. i'm sure they'll love you for who you are...we should be friends!
if u have yahoo, add me! my sn is isawjesuspiss
crude...yes
be yourself!!! hold your head high! act proud of who you are!
lol i need to work on that...
~jc~
2006-08-19 00:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋