ok i just took two hpt today and they say very poss. for about 4 hours i was estatic.
now i am flooded with a whole new worry, will i stay preg. I had a miscarage before my first son was born. and its been 3 years since i had a baby.
every little twinge i get i wonder if i'm getting ready to miscarry, its still 4 days till my next expected period and i'm soooo scared it will come and i wont be preg anymore.
i know thats why you shouldnt test brfore two weeks after mising a period. but after trying for over a year and finally getting "those little signs" you just want to know.
anyone have any GOOD advice for me.
in the words of thumper "if cant say something nice, dont say nothin at all" thanks
2006-08-18 17:00:11 · 9 answers · asked by naightengale 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this will be baby #4
2006-08-18 17:24:39 · update #1
Just relax and try to stay calm. Stress will only make it worse. I am sure you will be fine. It you have any questions just call the obgyn, I called them all the time, they are used to it. I understand how you feel, but like I said just take it easy. Try doing a hobby or something to ease your mind and before you know it, you'll have a new bundle of joy.
2006-08-18 17:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Amber D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. Know that whatever happens is meant to happen. Call the Dr's office on Monday and make an appointment to be seen.
Worrying will get you nowhere but more worried, and is about as effective at solving problems as "trying to solve an algebra equation buy chewing bubble gum". Hopefully you have a good Friend to talk to and comfort you. Stress and anxiety won't help anything. Try some meditation
2006-08-19 00:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by LEMME ANSWER THAT! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry those tests rarely test false positive. You will worry yourself to death over this. I had 2 miscarriages before I had my first baby was born and then 1 miscarriage in between then a 2nd baby came along. But I had that 1st baby to cuddle and love and so it was not as hard losing this baby, it was worse the first two times. That is not to say I didn't cry and didn't get upset, but I knew I could get pregnant and I could carry to term. So relax. Wait and then test again after your date.
2006-08-19 00:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by mom of girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in the medical field I know a little about this. but being a christian I know a lot about that. First I will say this if it is in GODS plans then it will happen for you. So just have faith. And put your faith in him. I have had 2 miscarriages so I know exactly how you are feeling right now. As far as a medical stand point if you want to know for sure you can go to the doctor and be tested. And there are test that can be done to tell if you are having a miscarriage.
2006-08-19 00:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse thing you can do right now is stressing yourself out. I do understand though, I miscarried twice between my 1st and 2nd child. Try to relax. Listen to some soothing music when you can, take a hot bath, light some incense, anything that will help relax you and get your mind off your worries. Take care of yourself and congratulations!
2006-08-19 00:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by lilbitadevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel i lost a baby then got pregnant with triplets lost them but now i have a healthy 3 year old and a healthy 7 month old just relax if it was meant to be every thing will go fine
2006-08-19 00:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by newmom01112006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck sweetie. Thats all I can say. Ive been trying for 3 years so I know what you are going through. I wish I had some words of wisdom.
2006-08-19 00:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Prissy_kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX! that is number one, don't do anything strenuous, take good care of yourself. when your body is ready everything will fall into place! good luck!
2006-08-19 00:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Emily E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be patient and when the time is right it will happen. Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-19 00:07:09 · answer #9 · answered by Stevie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋