all the guys at my school wont date me they say that i am ugly, fat, nasty and i dont take showers and thats not true the kids in my grade make fun of me by paying the guys i like to ask me out and to dance with me at dances and once they paid my crush to grabb my butt
what should i do?
2006-08-18 16:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
What jerks! to me, you seem kind,compassionate, and not ugly at all! You need someone like that. What they are doing is illegal.
Tell a pernt or teacher!
2006-08-18 17:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
marcyrox, first of all, don't let anyone see that they are getting to you. I know it is hard to do, because I was there once.
We were very poor and my mom was nowhere around for me. Mom and dad separated when I was 11 so I had to grow up over night and take care of home, dad, and siblings. I am not complaining because we became a very close family.
Most of the kids at my school were well to do and wore the most expensive clothes. I had to wear dresses and pants that my aunt made for me and they were out of style, plus my shoes had holes in the bottoms of them. I shied way from the crowd and started staying alone most of the time. (Don't let them know who you have a crush on, and look for guys you don't go to school with.) You wind up being better off anyways. I did!!!!
Finally a girl started talking to me and we became fast friends. She and her boyfriend became my best friends and we hung out together. (We have been BEST friends since 6 th grade. Graduated in 1973) (And we are planning her 3rd wedding.) I didn't feel left out anymore, even around the popular kids. They still talked about me but I didn't care. I prayed more and I finally realized that I would NOT have to be with these people the rest of my life. School only last a few years and during those years, the "ugly" begin to grow beautiful and the popular lose their edge.
No matter what you look like, you are more beautiful than the prettiest cheerleader. Your spirit makes you beautiful and their mouth and actions make them UGLY!!!!!!!!
Take care of yourself honey, and keep that BEAUTIFUL head of yours up. Show them who has the best advantage. YOU!!!
I am sorry I seemed to run around in circles here, but I was having flash backs. I AM A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND LOVE LIFE!!!!!!!
2006-08-18 18:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Mary D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than any other time in your life your are living amongst pigs. Kids can be so cruel it is hard to believe they grow up.
While pointing fingers at you, and getting others to agree, they feel like no one is doing the same to them.
Our teenage years are truly some of the hardest years you will face. It does get better when you start dealing with people that have matured.
There is really little you can do now about this. In every school there has to be at least one kid that gets picked on.
only thing you can do is to take care of yourself, keep clean, ware clean clothes and then just keep your chin up.
Don't let them get you down. It will get better.
2006-08-18 17:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they only care about you lots. it truly is not user-friendly to appreciate at your age. Relationships are packed with rigidity and happiness. yet to boot, even as 2 people commence courting ultimately one or possibly both one in each and every of them are going to favor to flow to the subsequent element in case you recognize what I mean. they only choose the right for you and they prefer you to relish existence. trust me, a relationship isn't all peaches and cream. it would want to be particularly stressful now and again and oftentimes it would want to impression your grades and your existence too. yet I also do not forget that you particularly favor to journey having a boyfriend to boot. in spite of the reality that, in case you do date.. do not do it only for the identify. Do it because you want them. fiddling with people's thoughts isn't an effective theory. yet in all honesty, your father and mom would not have a say once you commence courting. they can make recommendations and provide you their evaluations about issues, yet they ought to not supply up you from courting who you want. i recognize i am going to get thumbs downs for asserting that even if the way I see it, yeah they gave you existence and they took care of you yet in case you fairly like someone, you shouldn't turn them down because your father and mom stated you won't be able to date. they are going to say that you're youthful and all that yet that doesn't mean you do not have thoughts for people. only in spite of you do, do not grow to be a sl*t.
2016-11-05 03:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait u will be a swan someday and they will be on there knees asking 4 u to like them
2006-08-18 19:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by newman12992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to my school you don't have to look far to find someone worse off than you. In the south everyone is nice.
AND THE SCHOOL IS BRAND NEW!!
2006-08-18 17:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by EMO cupcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people at our school are pricks and none of them are worth your time and you can get betetr guys that care about you other places and they will love you dance wid you for free.
2006-08-18 17:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a teenager. No need fore boys. Need for school and education = ] young boys lead to bad things
2006-08-18 17:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Potathao 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
o well, that's life.Try learning how to joke and be more aggressive.I'm 14 and my school is bad,but i get used to everything,and when some1 strikes me i strike them back.
2006-08-18 17:47:15 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah....ignore em....u'll find a guy that luvs u....give it sum time, and who cares rite now...were teenagers....we gott plenty of time
2006-08-18 17:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋