Losing weight, getting a girl, sex?, someone please give me a hand?

Question

Hey everyone. I am having some huge trouble here..I'm 15 years old..and im startin to get interested in girls very much..I mean i guess I could say i'm overweight.. im like 170 and about 5''7 - 5''8. I really want to lose weight..you know look good for a girl before I acutally go out with them just so my confidence is much higher..but the thing is if I actually get this girl, and we are close to actually having sex that my dick won't be big enuff to actually PLEASURE her..it's only 3.3 inches is that even possible to have intercourse with her? Other than that i'm just really low on my self-esteem and confidence..i feel bad about my weight, the size of my penis.....and some of my buds just have the luck and get all the girls.. i wanna look big get some muscles you kno b able to protect my girl and just look good bein wit her..someone please! help me! all the advice would help so much...

Answer 1

Hi, Ben. You need to focus on making the most of what you have. Apparently you are healthy, you have a mature personality, you have goals, and you know how to ask for help. Believe me, you have MANY positive qualities to start with.

Unless you made a mistake in your typing, you cannot be called overweight. It might be that things are a little out of proportion, such as if your tummy is a little rounded and your shoulders are too. But that is nothing that a few years at the gym will not change, and, when you think of it, (almost) every guy out there starts with the same body form you have. Every young man out there who looks good started at the same point you are at -- he was not satisfied with things, and he had goals. So you can do it, too, just as well as the next guy.

The size of your bone, however, is something that you cannot really change. You can try jelqing (or jelking or however it is spelled), which you can look up on various Internet sites. Read ALL about it before trying it, though, so you do not overdo it and injure yourself.

You need to reconcile yourself to the fact that your bone is what you have to work with, and you need to make the most of it. The last thing you need to do is to worry yourself into becoming a mean guy because fate dealt you a 3.3-inch penis. You are unfortunately too young to know it yet, but the penis is only one of the many body parts used to pleasure a woman. You think of your penis first, because that is what you use to pleasure yourself. But a girlfriend needs a guy with some brains, plenty of courtesy, and a gentle touch.

Let me tell you a secret. If you situate yourself as a person who has high standards for correct behavior, and if you show your girlfriend that you are a man who respects his girlfriend as an equal human being who deserves to be listened to and talked with and comforted and supported, you can "set the tone" for your communication with her (and with all of your friends of both sexes) in a way that will get other people to respect you and love you for the qualities of your personality.

Once you have established that you are a high quality human being, anyone who makes love to you is going to get the most pleasure out of being intimate with YOU because she will love and respect you. And even if your penis size is somehow disappointing, she will probably overlook that completely because she trusts you and loves you and wants to be in your company. If you become a really good man, then being alone with you and in your arms is going to be far more satisfying to the lucky girlfriend than getting artificially "excited" about the size of the penis.

It sounds like this "secret" should be plain old common sense, but it isn't. If you become the kind of man who makes other people feel better in your presence, you really will not need to think at all about your penis size. That is because your real manhood, or your "person-hood," will be the biggest and best thing about you.

If you can, print this out and keep it. Re-read these words from time to time, and make up your mind to become the kind of man YOU can truly respect.

Answer 2

Dude, chill out. Sex is important but it is not nearly as important as you think it is right now. I started working out with weights when I was 16 for basically the same reasons that you state. I never became hugely muscular but I'm 5'9" and weight 175 and I look pretty good if I do say myself (my wife seems to think so to). I would say you are a little over weight but not to bad, you can get in shape without to much trouble. The most important thing is to control how much you eat. You should be consuming about 2500 calories a day. Read food labels, stay away from high fat and high carbohydrate foods like potato chips, french fries, fruit rollups, regular soda and pizza. What you need is information, buy a Men's Health or Muscle & Fittness magazine, read it and follow the advise. Men's Health has good advise on sex also but remember sex is dangerous physically, emotionally and finacially. You DO NOT want to get a girl pregnant before you are 21 years old and if you have sex without birth control you WILL get a girl pregnant (pulling out dosn't work, trust me!). Lastly, don't worry about your penis, it will be "up" to the task when the time comes.

Answer 3

I'm not the smallest girl in the world, not overweight but --curvy. I think there is someone out there for EVERYONE. what one girl may not want another might. if you think you obsess about weight I can tell you girls think about it more, because we think no guy will want to fu*k us. let me tell you - I have had plenty of takers (not that I fu*k them all or anything). get in the gym, that will help boost your self confidence and after you walk around with some new self esteem and a new body - that girl will approach you.

Answer 4

eat at regular intervals

Answer 5

If the girl thinks you're too big, and your penis is too small, then she isn't worth the work.

I, personally, love chubby guys. My last ex was 250 pounds!

You do need to gain some self esteem, because that turns girls on.

Answer 6

I wouldn't say your overweight!! My brother is 15 and 150 but he's really skinny!!! You don't want to get too skinny!!! Don't worry about that kind of stuff!!!...Just go get a membership @ your local gym...get's some muscles, look nice, and get a girl!!!....Good Luck!!!!

Answer 7

okay, Im going to say that as nicely as I can, but please know, if it comes out mean or harsh, Im not trying to be a ***** but as straight as I can to ya k?
You got roled a bad pair of dice. Honestly, that is extremely small for a penis...however, if you can use your hands, tongue and body to entice her, believe me, it will make up for it. Because any one can be moby dick but have no idea what they are doing with it....you see? As for weight, buffing up is good, but please maintain this nice personality that I can see that you have!! I suggest doing some type of Denise Austin video, girlie, but do you have ANY idea how much that works?? ..believe me it does lol...good luck guy, im me if you wanna chat furthur.
(as for the girl, go for it, but remember, you also want a girl that will love you and find you sexy in your current state)

Answer 8

lossing weight might not get you the girl be ok of who you i and letting your mind controlled the show might just be the think you need at a time like this after all you i just 15.

Answer 9

if you re having trouble getting started make a small move such as starting an eating log or buying walking shoes you re three times more likely to follow through if you start with small gestures such as these

Answer 10

Not eating or skipping meals is not dieting If you do you may get more weight