And there is this this FR-iend at work & he really-really likes me and I do not know how to tell my Boyfriend
how I feel
HELP!!!!
2006-08-18 16:50:35 · 23 answers · asked by bethcatphoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your a two timing skank
2006-08-18 16:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It all depends on how u feel towards this "friend". If this is a loving relationship of 19 yrs, tell the friend to lighten up. Are 19 years worth throwing away for what might be a "hit and run?". Don't tell your boyfriend. You are at work to work, not make dates and you can tell the "friend" that. If he can't accept that as an answer, too bad. If he does, then he is a true friend. Good luck whichever way you choose to go.
2006-08-18 17:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by rlmooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Help,
You have to ask yourself, is this other guy worth throwing away 19 years of a relationship you obviously care about? Then if you are still not sure,maybe taking a break from your boyfriend and being able to take it easy for a while can let you realized if you are willing to commit 100% to him. I am not sure your age but you should think about what you want for your future. Also are is this guy just a crush or someone you really want to get to know? Good Luck
2006-08-18 17:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first i would break up with your current boyfriend so you dont lead him on any longer. You cant help the way that you feel about a co-worker or perhaps you just want to explore sexually with someone else (i might after the same thing with someone for 19 years!)
Talk to your current boyfriend in a low tone so he wont feel like your yelling at him and maintain that low tone even if he yells.
good luck.
2006-08-18 16:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do U still loves him after 19 yrs & not getting married?If no,then dump him coz' he dosen't seems to be serious with U.If he is,would be a husband instead of boyfriend.Give the other guy a chance,who knows,he might be better.Gd Luck.
2006-08-18 16:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by me_imah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-08-18 16:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first you have to find out if your state has a common law marriage......you know if you have been living with a man for 7 years or more then ya'll are considered a married couple.....if not just tell him that you need to explore life........enjoy some of life's great pleasures......and give you friend a chance.....Good Luck
2006-08-18 17:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by lyn_x_three 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this right, you are only BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND AFTER 19 YRS? whats wrong with this picture? Your not engaged? or planning to get married? unbelievable. I would NOT get with the guy at work, because you should "shitt where you eat", if it doesn't work out you will have to see this guy everyday and think about how uncomfortable that would be?
I would leave the boyfriend tho.
2006-08-18 17:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by Evie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beth, You need to be honest with him until 20 years. You have been together for that and that reason only! The grass is not always green on the other side of the fence. Happiness comes in all due time. It's up to you to take that step forward in your life or is it? You have got to be honest.....RED..GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-18 17:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
19 years is a very long time and if you feel you can't communicate with your boyfriend after 19 years then you two need to split befor you hurt him
2006-08-18 16:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End one relationship before starting another...besides, your boyfriend is not much into this if you're still just BF/GF after 19 years
2006-08-18 16:57:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋