I'm a guy in highschool and I would like to know if this guy is sexually attracted to me or like me because one time he ask me if I would go out with him,But I thought he was playing because guys at school always joke around like that. But this is my third year in highschool and I have a feeling he really likes me because it seems like he tries to come on to me alot.Every time he see me in the hallway he would stop me and come up to me and ask me who class i'm going to know. Also if he catch me looking at him, he would come a start a talking convertsation with me. please help me on this question i'm asking thank you so much YAHOO ANSWER
2006-08-18 16:34:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First off.... WAIT!!! You'll have PLENTY of time for a serious relationship..... don't worry about sex, and all that comes with it, right now! If he likes you, then that's great! Just don't do anything that the 30-year-old you may regret (not to mention if you end up with someone else down the road who you DO want to have a serious relationship with).
2006-08-18 16:42:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its possible, however you are in highschool even if he is attracted to you, you need to be really careful how you approach this. Being gay is still a pretty touchy subject and I'd hate for you to get hurt because some one on Y!A told you to go for it, lol. So my advice is just approach him as a friend, make friends first. Don't push things. Take your time, get to know him. If he is attracted to you let him reveal it in his due time. He may have not come to terms with being gay yet either. So please just be careful.
2006-08-18 16:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar situation but, it wasn't high school. you really need to be cautious. i don't mean to be discouraging you but, in rural areas, people may notice your orientation and it could get ugly or even dangerous. don't become too good of friends but, become friends so you two will know if you are compatable. also, don't let yourself be used. i hope the best for you. just remember, high school is the most important thing to worry about right now. finish that before anything else. look out for number one. that is you. good luck.
2006-08-18 20:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by johnny_on_the_spot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think is this guy probably is just attracted to you. I don't think he is sexually attracted to you. He may just be trying to be your friend too. Just talk to him and give him a chance at being friends and see how far that goes. That's the best advice i can give you on this kind of subject.
2006-08-18 16:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by colorsgalpal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he asks where you are going, tell him you are going camping, or ask him to come over and watch movies later. See what he says. But let these things take their own time...don't rush or presume, because you can get hurt! Physically!
2006-08-21 17:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Mark L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you say i would say yeah he really does like you. But don't take it negatively, if you just want to be friends say so if you want to go out ask him. but do talk to him about it so each of you will know where the other stands
2006-08-18 17:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Teri D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you wrote, it doesn't need a rocket scientist to know that he is definitely into you. Are you gay yourself? Well if you are already out and comfortable with yourself, you should just ask the guy if he's gay and ask him out. It saves you a lot hassles.
2006-08-18 16:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by NikeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school if I remember right. If he's talking to you, that means he is attracted to you. It really is that simple.
2006-08-18 16:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Compulsory23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it. You might as well ask him what's going on. If it's your thing, congrats. If not, just tell him so and he'll likely move on.
2006-08-18 16:39:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just FRIENDLY and wants your friendship... maybe he likes you because of certain attitudes and qualities you have... not that he is attracted or sexually attracted to you... wait till he ask you...
2006-08-18 17:15:21 · answer #10 · answered by nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋