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then i caught him out emailing and calling ex girlfriends but he still lives with me now we broke up thought space might make him see what he wants but i am broken and struggle to heal, cant live with him and it kills me to live without him help me please

2006-08-18 16:34:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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If he's cheating and lying, then he obviously doesn't really love you. If he did he'd be alot more considerate of your feelings. He sounds much like the "it's all about me" type. Between the breaking up and the getting back together, it also doesn't sound much like a relationship...it borders addiction to each other. You said you can't live with him, but it kills you to live without him. Honey, only time can heal that wound, but it has to heal and you aren't giving it that chance. You break up, start to heal and then he comes back into your life and tears that wound wide open again. Don't do that to yourself. You survived before he ever came into your life and you are going to survive long after he's gone. You deserve better, you deserve to be happy, but only you can make that choice. Do you want to go through life being second best? Or compared to his other flings and ex-girlfriends? I didn't think so, but if this is just boyfriend/girlfriend stuff, consider it a crystal ball as to what your future holds with him. These types of men never change. You are smart enough to end it from time to time, be smart enough not to take him back and find someone else that is more deserving of your love, trust and loyalty. Because this man, doesn't appreciate it.

2006-08-18 16:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0 0

Honey, if he cheats on you and lies in your face, calls ex-girlfriends and sends emails to females then that's not love. How can he even utter those words to you and how in the hell can you believe him....Look girl i'm sure your a good looking women and you don't need his kind of love. Are you desperate to be with a man that you have to settle for someone that cheats on you and lies to you. Wake up baby before it's to late for you. He'll regret losing you one day.

Stay strong hunn.

2006-08-18 16:46:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sorry. sweetheart he doesnt really love you. ok he may say he does but if hes lieing and cheating that must mean he is telling the other girl(s) that too. so you take a min. and think about. dont get heart broken you know what you should do go out have fun with the girls and remember if hes sneaking around you do the same to him and show him how it really feels and then mabye he will see that he really has something.

2006-08-18 16:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

for sure dishonest is mendacity. She might want to love both men yet she desires to make a range. Now she'll finally end up hurting one in all them. i imagine dishonest is the more serious ingredient someone can do. when you're literally not satisfied, replace it. do not bypass looking elsewhere till you've ended the sorrowful courting.

2016-11-26 01:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by harrow 4 · 0 0

Just take it a moment at a time. When I left my ex husband my brother gave me great advice. He told me that when it gets the worst all you have to remember is that you just need to make it through the next minute...it'll get better. You'll be okay honey, you just have to have a little faith in yourself.

2006-08-18 16:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by vbplr_12 3 · 0 0

Go out and enjoy life if he sees that you can't function without him then he is going to continue to do what he does because he knows that you will put up with it but if he sees you out with someone new then maybe he will realize what he had.

2006-08-18 16:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he cheats and lies, he does not love you. Why would you want to waste your time with someone who doesn't love you? You should really find someone who actually cares about you.

2006-08-18 16:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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