I'm in a on and off relationship kinda thing where her and I break up and get back together, that sorta thing. She's recently been bragging about some other guy which she's really desperate to be his friend and claims he understands her. I know that she can be fooled easily by these types of guys since my brother is one of them. I want to know that if we fight all the time and she's treating this other guy like some god should I jsut stop trying and move on even though I can never truly move on. Did I forget to mention that I love her no matter what and so far that is true.
2006-08-18 16:18:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, you shouldnt bother with her anymore.
2006-08-18 16:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one ever stated that loving someone would come with instructions.You will and can move on,no matter what your heart is telling you or how your emotions are feeling at this time.You need to step back and look at the whole picture here on how she is reacting.Sounds like she is trying to torment you and the sad thing is that it is working!She See's your suffering over her and she knows you are deeply hurting.People like that don't deserve second or third chances like you have been giving.The way she is acting,i am totally surprised how anyone could understand her.You deserve to be happy and this girl isn't it.I'm sorry and don't mean for any offense,but you need a wake up call.I wish you the best in all your choices and Good Luck!
2006-08-18 23:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through, I've had a on and off relationship before. You need to be firm and move on. A decent girl wouldn't do that to you, going off bragging around like that. You will feel so much better, once you've healed from the break up and when you find the girl of your dreams, you'll laugh at this girl. Good luck man.
2006-08-18 23:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by cornelius_joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly doesn't want to be with you if she is throwing this in your face. If you even had a chance with her, you shouldn't be letting her talk this way to you about another dude and treat you bad. You should be confident in yourself and say you've had it with her and move on. So hard I know, just pretend to not care about her anymore and care more about yourself. Confidence in a man is sexy no matter what he looks like. It's hard but you gotta move on. Go out with your friends and have fun and meet new girls. She'll see all that and be jealous, and if not, at least you're having a life too. Don't give her the upper hand in this situation by sitting back and taking her crap!
2006-08-18 23:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in High School (or just out) you need to realize that ALL teen relationships are based on superficial ********. This is goes for both sexes! It's all about image and looks. (Yes girls! YOU are Just as guilty if not More so!)
EVERY couple that I knew from High School who had a "relationship" CRASHED and BURNED within 5 years. The REALLY Stupid ones got married. Every last one of them has since got divorced!
Sorry Ladies! regardless of what you see on that TV show "Felicity", young teen love is like having a "stowage" ticket on the Titanic!
Go live your life kid! When you're looking for love, you will Never find it. When it does happen, you'll Never see it coming!
2006-08-18 23:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by thart090 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon it's easier said than done. it is really hard to walk away from someone you really love and someone you seem so willing to forgive, but the facts are you will never be happy and you will always be the one forgiving eventually you will resent it and her, you might eventually strike out, so don't live to regret, be happy. LEAVE. move on and like i told someone else moving on doesn't mean getting with someone else, but realise you are worth more than you are getting right now and that your life will be more fulfilling if you acknowledge that what you are doing right now isn't healthy, get some new hobby, become involved in a youth group or church or make new friends and hang out with people/friends you don't have in common. but do something you can't go on as you are. anyhow all the best.
2006-08-18 23:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she playing u. got u wrapped around her finger. y sit by and let her do this to u there are so many other girls out there. dump her @@@ and find something else and once u have u will find out u where in love with the idea of loving her, not that u really did love her. Ur call though ur life u have to decide what to do all we can do is give advise
2006-08-18 23:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, you know what, what ur thinking is love, is nothing but a jealousy feeling for all the other guys she talks about. that's a manly ego i guess..
i've always thought that for guys, if they dont get a girl and if she talks about other guys then instead of leaving her, they wanna get her even more to themselves..i guess its ego or something
just forget about her, there's tons of other girls around ya...
and if she only cared abt ur feelings why wud she talk abt other boys
or you could also try talking abt some of her girlfriends to her, she might get jealous too and probably will understand what she is doing is not right..
2006-08-18 23:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kansha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you kind of derserve a lilttle better but you said you love her. Talk to her and let her know that it isnt ordinary for her to brag about another man to you. Let her know how guys really are and what he may be capable of. He probably just wants to sleep with her, I dont know but if she has your heart, that's where you need to try to be. Good luck.
2006-08-18 23:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser...wots ur problem ...y do you keep breaking off n then get back together...the whole thing just looses its importance.... let her know how u really feel bout her.... if she realizes how much u love her she'll stop talking bout this guy....n if she really likes this guy...she'll leave u no matter wot u do
2006-08-18 23:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, although you will always love her, and you are an honorable person, she however doesnt deserve you and maybe she is looking for some other kind of attention since you both break up so much. I think its pretty plain you will be appreciated by someone who doesnt seek other guys all the time.
2006-08-18 23:25:18 · answer #11 · answered by nikilisious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋