What do you do when you begin to have feelings for your best or very close friend? We both are married but our marriages are not what they should be. We became friends and then things went to another level. We started seeing each other, and yes we are still great friends. Neither of our spouses know about the other. I know we should not be this way, but that is the way things happened. If you were in our shoes what would you do? Would you feel bad if you were the male, female?
2006-08-18 16:11:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Cheating is wrong no matter. If you are spending more time with your friend then trying to fix your marriage then you should end the marriage. Both of you are being selfish by cheating on your spouses. Marriage isnt easy and it takes a lot of work. If it is meant to be then your friend is still going to be there once you BOTH get divorced.
Good luck hun!
2006-08-18 16:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Judi V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to get out of that relationship completely! You are both married and are setting yourselves up for a lot of heartache...not just between you and him - but your spouses as well. They may not know now, but one day something will give and you will be discovered. Then what? Why would you want to be involved in a love triangle anyway?
2006-08-18 23:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have stronger feelings for your friend than your spouse, then it's time to end the marriage.
2006-08-18 23:17:17 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya if ur spouses really love u guys...then they will be hurt...dont stretch it ...just end ur marriages and get along with this guy u like
2006-08-18 23:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you both girls? or boys? or a husband & wife cheating on their husband & wife?! if ur both girls..have fun & invite ur husbands to watch..if ur both boys...u need to come to grips with maybe being bi & PLEASE use protection!! and if ur a husband & wife (but NOT each others!) then grow up and decide when the hell ur going to become an adult!! think about how ur spouse will feel when u break their heart!! they might just be better off without you 2 & hook up themselves!!
2006-08-18 23:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by breezehew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips and articles on this site on what to do when you love your friend
2006-08-18 23:15:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE EITHER OF YOU WILLING TO LEAVE YOUR SPOUSES FOR EACHOTHER? THAT WOULD BE THE TEST OF WETHER OR NOT IT SHOULD BE SOMETHING YOU GUYS PURSUE, UNLESS YOU'RE FINE WITH ARRANGEMENT.
2006-08-18 23:18:31 · answer #7 · answered by Work-N-Hrd-2-Mk-It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋