i really like this boy and we are pretty good friends. but i dont know how to make him notice me more. how do i do that?? (and no sick remarks plz!!)
2006-08-18 15:31:59 · 26 answers · asked by greenelephants33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hmm tricky i guess. maybe when you are walking just take his hand like you are already dating. clear sign easy to refuse and pretty clear i would hope.
2006-08-18 15:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok girl to girl. It shouldnt be, How do I get this guy to like me, because if he doenst like you already then he is CRAZY. I believe in the whole, guy chases girl deal. But if you want him to notice you, FLIRT. it always helps never hurts. Plus if he confronts you about it, and clearly isnt intrested you can always say, "Well you must have read my signals wrong, I like you as a friend. I am sorry" just to cover your behind and save face.
2006-08-18 22:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by lapuertoricana1658 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound stupid but it always works.Be your true self and be honest.Maybe u should let him know in a suttle but fun way u wanna be more than friends.Start off by flirting with him a little if he doesnt get the hint ,he's stupid,lol.Be very confident even if your not, fake, men love women who are secure with themselves.
2006-08-18 22:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by cutieb7681 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way with my friend Phil a while back. Just talk to him often and let him know that you're interested in him and what he's saying. Laugh at his jokes, even if they're bad. It will come around natrually. :)
2006-08-18 22:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Skittlez520 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, never falter! I would first try to see if he's even worth liking himself, it sounds like you don't know him yet. Approach it as merely the establishment of a new friendship and see if you connect and have common intrests. Friend's first... love later! Hope you both hit it off; more importantly, I hope he treats you well.
2006-08-18 22:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by Yuppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather it is him or any guy in your life, just be you. Be upbeat, confident, and fun and you will get more attention than you can handle. If a guy doesn't notice you, just let him know you are interested in him. Us guys are an easy lot. It doesn't take that much.
2006-08-18 22:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay im in the same situation except the other way around the girl doesnt notice me,well to be honest i try to keep my mouth shut and not say anything stupid,smile!and be yourself which is not easy,my mom tells me be patient she'll come around,well i hope so,but in everything be yourself if you try to be somone your not then whats the use of him liking you cause hes not hes liking the somone else thats not you
2006-08-19 01:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Josh P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself more beautiful,tell him your feeling. Whatever you do,don't force him to love you,b/c he won't like you as a bf nor a friend anymore.
Good Luck & Best Wishes~
2006-08-18 22:37:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be yourself. Just show him how amazing you can be. Trust me, this is from experience. Of course, a little flirting does not hurt either :)
2006-08-18 22:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by chismaxqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i have found to be the most effective is to play hard to get they love ya forever but as soon as you act like you give a **** they crap on ya
2006-08-18 22:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋