i am 16 an last year dated a guy.he cheated on me with my best friend(suppose to be my best friend)we broke up an i started dating him again in january.he then cheated on me again i became to feel i was worthles.i then dated him again recently an he once again cheated?why do i always run bak i feel like my confidence level is zero!!he wants to be friends again should i? it always leads to more!!!:((
2006-08-18 15:28:55 · 38 answers · asked by lee lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweetheart,
There's a famous quote that says, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."
As long as you continue going back to him, he'll continue cheating on you. I suggest that you try something DIFferent for a change:
Take some time off from guys & invest in yourself. Find out what's so beautiful about your mind, body and spirit. Once you recognize your own value, you won't put up with crap as easily because you won't need a jerk's attention to confirm your own worth. You'll already be conscious of it and, hopefully, hold the guys you're attracted to to a higher standard.
And don't listen to those people who said you're an idiot. Let THEM date your ex; they think alike and would make a great couple! You just have to learn to see a loser for who he is. Surely, everybody appreciates affection. But when we truly appreciate our SELVES, we're less likely to substitute the temporary attention of some clown for the true affection of a sincere person. We'll be content with ourselves, family & friends until we meet a person WORTHY enough to date.
I know you're not INSANE, right? You just need a change ;-)
2006-08-18 15:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you grow older you will understand more about your own self worth dear ... There is no reason to run back to someone who treats you so badly .. He is not worth your time ..
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2006-08-18 15:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey lee lee, you need to find a way to be just friends. That's all. He cheated on you three times. No offence, but you shouldn't have gone out with him again after the first time he cheated on you. He is just going to cheat on you again if you go out with him. Sit him down and talk to. Tell him, you just want to be friends nothing more. See where it goes from there. If you think your friendship is going to become something more, hang out with someone else for a little bit, give each other some space.
2006-08-18 15:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie Pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but you are stupid! and i say this because you know you are. 3 times the same thing happened, why do you think the next time around will be any different? were the two of you having sex, because if so - you are just a romp in the sack for him. stop picking the wrong guys and stop feeling worthless - you are your own worst enemy. lose that idiot and just focus on school and your real friends and enjoy being sweet 16. you don't need a no good twit in your life now ...or ever.
2006-08-18 15:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesnt know what a great girl he has. I wouldnt have never gone out with him again after the 2nd time to be honest. Once a cheater always a cheater. Move on...love can be cruel but at some point you have to fight it especially if the guy is treating you like **** and hurting you over and over again. Your better then that.
2006-08-18 15:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 10:33:31 · answer #6 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are too young to start out with a guy like that. If you don't stop now that will always be the kind of guy you will be attracted to. You don't want to spend the rest of your life like that. Think about it like this. Is this the only guy you can get? Of course not. Are you better than that? Of course yes. Tell that little walking hormone to go take a hike. Now you get your education and worry about the guys later.
2006-08-18 15:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by angeldolls4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You end up heart broken because you keep going back to the same jerk.Don't you think its time to move on and find some one different.That guy is going to continue to cheat,and you by taking him back all the time is telling him he can do it over and over and come back to you when he wants too.Wake up..you are making your own heart ache ...
2006-08-18 15:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause you are hooking up with the wrong guys.
Make a list of traits you want in your ultimate partner.
(they can change as you have life experiences)
Rate them.
Don't settle for anyone that doesn't have your top 5.
Probably want to list HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY, etc on the top and "immature" closer to the bottom.
2006-08-18 15:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kaitelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listening, you want somehing you already know maybe you dont know change, u nkow this guy so u keep going back to him you need to forget about him even as a friend, your not stud ir unintelligent as what others had stated, you feel comfortable with his presence. stop, once a cheater always a cheater, find someone new
2006-08-18 15:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by Quasar1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋