I believe in arranged marrages,so there is this boy who has been proposed to me, so how can i win over his heart at the first meeting itself ?
2006-08-18 15:28:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
First meeting? Dress up to look naturally good but not overdress. Be polite and mindful of your behaviour.First impressions count so be at your best. Have fun!
2006-08-18 16:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for holding strong in your faith. Here in America (lol, i grew up in CA, to top it all off) we put so much stock in finding our own true love, ( a screw the parents kind of outlook, pardon the language) with a pretty widespread belief that an arranged marriage cannot work. However if you look at our stats we have one of the higest divorce rates in the world, practically of all time. So here we are dashing the idea of an arranged marriage yet we can't seem to keep the self-picked ones past a couple of years. A marriage takes so much work to keep it alive, no matter if it is arranged or not. Your parents, after all, know you pretty well, much better than we ever give them credit for. I bet it will be a good match because of this, think about it, your parents know you, his parents know him, they are bound to be able to pick well to suit. Honestly i believe that God will bring two people together in His own way, some may find their partner themselves, others it may be arranged. You never know. He is in tune with your needs, so if you believe in arranged marriages it will work for you. Just keep having faith like you already have. Bless you for putting out such an effort, you are already well on your way. Have confidence that you are the beautiful woman you are, your sincerity will go well, and smile. He is probably thinking the same thing you are right now. Just be yourself, and have confidence in yourself. that is the most beautiful thing.
2006-08-26 12:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow. Do you want to marry this guy? Have you even met him? I hate to break it to you, but you can really seriously like a person at first sight, but you can't make them love you forever at first sight.
Don't get me wrong; I do believe in love at first sight, but experience also tells me that it's just the beginning. If you do want to go through with the arranged marriage (or have no choice) then the best thing I think someone could tell you is that you have a lifetime to learn to love each other.
2006-08-24 06:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cassiopeia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be your sweet self - arranged marriages is common in my culture as well. Be interested in him, ask him questions about himself, like favorite movies, food, and maybe you two have things in common - like his interests. The one thing you must start off with is a friendship. You might want to do this first meeting away from the family members because it is hard to really get to know someone when your parents are watching your whole conversation. Good luck sweetie!
2006-08-18 15:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by flygrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww. Bless your heart for taking a positive approach to a situation that most people would be devistated with. Be yourself at that first meeting... it may sound cheesy, but if you two are to be married, he'll see the real you at some time in your life. Be an open book and look for the things that you respect in each other. And, of course, look cute! ;)
2006-08-18 15:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by kristnanne19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How nice that you meet the guy before you actually marry him. I have read stories wherein the guy doesn't even know how his bride looks like until the wedding day itself. A guy normally likes a physically attractive, clean-looking, fragrant girl. That's for basics. To be intellectually stimulating with a lot of varied interests makes the girl real winner.
2006-08-26 14:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you see him you may want to take back those words. He may look like the south end of a north bound horse for all you know. And who wants to wake up ever morning to look at that first thing? I think you should be yourself and just try being nice to him he may not agree with this and if your stuck with him he'll just cheat on you when ever he can. Surly that's not what you want. Besides if he does look like the south end of a north bound horse what do you have to worry about, you might be asking us how to get rid of him next time.
2006-08-18 16:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his friend first- don't rush the passion. Many times it takes a while of building up things like trust and a greater appreciation for the other person for a true and lasting romance to happen.
2006-08-26 14:25:40 · answer #8 · answered by Betsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, he should be the one trying to win you over. Be yourself and let the course run itself. Sometime, love may not be there for a while, but eventually it will be. Remember respect is there first, then like and eventually love. Remember, he needs to win your heart also. and Good luck!
2006-08-22 15:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jáe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just be ureself. and be nice. it takes time for people to warm up to each other.
if he just happens to not like u very much after many encounters then i guess u should just find a guy that loves u for who u are and everything else instead of some guy that just kinda likes u or something. u wont be very happy with him then...
all i can say is that act like how u usually do and see if he likes u for who u are.
hope that helps! :)
2006-08-18 15:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Peaches~n'~Cream*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋