2006-08-18 15:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by clarkgirl2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The reason I ask is my old neighbor messed with my husband before we decided to split...and she has a problem with seeing taken men..or freshly cut off men...She also was my ex-friend, but we were friends when she messed with my man..
2006-08-18 15:42:20 · update #1
that depends on the maturity of your friend. will he/she mind? personally...i wouldn't it's a sore spot for them and could lead to problems with your friendship. and if the relationship with friends ex ends badly, your out a boyfriend AND a good friend. PLENTY other fish in the sea....basically...don't fish in other ppls pond!
2006-08-18 15:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important problems with having a relationship with any ex-female/boyfriend is the opportunity of searching yourselves drawn back into the relationship. For starters, you should appreciate that even even as the relationship is over, an analogous issues that had drawn you mutually are nevertheless there. And in case you in spite of the reality that he became captivating, he will nevertheless be captivating lengthy when you too are over. My element is the more beneficial time you spend which includes your ex, the better the danger that both of you may want to finally end up in each and every others hands. And an analogous applies for your boyfriend, extraordinarily if she damage him because he will favor to have it back faster or later. staggering option is for both one in each and every of you to stay sparkling off your exes, and concepts you, he received't pay interest to you in case you nevertheless are close to to any of your ex.
2016-11-05 03:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think anything of your friend, you really should not. He is NOT fair game just because he not with her anymore. Think about how you would feel if it were your ex. I had it done to me and it hurts like hell. The b***h that stood for me in my wedding could not wait to jump his bones the minute she heard we were getting divorced. Needless to say, she became an EX--FRIEND.
So you need to weigh out what is more important..him or her..
2006-08-18 15:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by love_my_4x4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno...I mean, it's kinda always been a rule of thumb for me, because I don't want any of my friends "leftovers." That's just me, though. You're playing with fire if you do, also. You never know how your friend will take it. Obviously, you would use common sense and if the guy treated your friend badly or if your friend still had feelings for them, you wouldn't want to date them. I say, it's ok if you don't mind the leftovers and it's ok with your friend. I'd ask the friend first, though.
2006-08-18 15:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your world that small that you can't get someone who hasn't been passed around? Girls like you have self-esteem issues and by dating a friend's ex makes you feel like your better than your friend.
2006-08-18 15:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by supraracer87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people think it is wrong but i think it is ok because if ur friend is no longer going out with them then obvoisly they should hav no problem. they hav no rite to be mad at u. if they cared so much they would be going out with them now. if like the guy u should ask him out if he is single.
2006-08-18 15:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no ..... unless there has been a good chunk of time since they split up and your friend gives you the green light to go ahead.
2006-08-18 15:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by lesbiandyke 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not cool. That's a boundary that should never be crossed.
2006-08-18 15:36:27 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think that would really hurt your friends feelings.
2006-08-18 15:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Boy, You Better Pray 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No .Too much drama
2006-08-18 15:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋