I really don't know whether to consider myself a lesbian or not.
2006-08-18 15:11:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexual preference is just that ... a preference. Clearly, you overwhelmingly prefer women, so your preference is lesbian.
I think it also depends on how strong the attraction is, and if you act on your sexual attraction to men. I have lesbian friends who occasionally feel some attraction to men, but would never have sex with them. I don't know whether that is because the attraction is not strong enough, or because they feel they would be condemned by the lesbian community.
2006-08-18 15:22:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a female that likes women and men but prefer to be with a woman. You are bi s E X U A L. Any way may I be in the %5 of the men you want. I'm me and we can talk about it.
2006-08-18 22:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny,if you can tell in % how much you are attracted to male and female,you can't tell you are bi/lesbian?
Don't bother,its not a must to put a tag for that,either you are lesbian/bi,you only can be with one person no matter is a he/she,
and you don't have to be 50/50 to be a bi,yeap,you are a bi
2006-08-21 23:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just hang around with lots of attractive women, and haven't met the right man yet. If you don't know for sure, how could you be a lesbian? Makes no sense.
Yin and Yang are in all people. We all have tendencies to be inherently female or male in some way or another.
Too much focus on having to make that decision, it seems to me. Why worry? Why label yourself at all?
2006-08-18 22:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends on how much you're attracted to them emotionally. If the 5% of the time that you're attracted to men is mostly physical attraction, then I'd say you're lesbian. But if you feel emotional attraction/attachment to both sexes, no matter how small the percentage, I'd say you're bi. Just my opinion.
2006-08-18 22:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bexby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably bi, just with a strong leaning toward women. Enjoy your life. Most lesbians don't want to go with bi sexual women because they fear disease, so make sure you take precautions.
2006-08-22 06:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That 5% of you that like men makes you bi
2006-08-18 22:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sexual Chocolate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it important?
Labels just fence you in.
If anybody really knows....say you're 95% lesbian with a tiny bi streak.
But why is it important to have a label?
2006-08-18 23:24:00 · answer #8 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure. I think you're more lesbian than bi. Not that that's a bad thing. Not to worry, it's all good!
2006-08-18 22:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by James J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you are attracted to men in any small way you would be considered bi
2006-08-18 22:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋