How do you tell your boyfriend that you don't want to always have sex with him?

Question

It's like this my boyfriend and i have a great bond together but it's like everytime he ask me to come over this house we always end up having sex,But the catch is that we never done anything together like(The Movies,going out to eat,Nothin)besides have sex and when i bring it up about us never doing anything he always get an attitude and says we will like he's gettin tired of me askin him that

Answer 1

Tell him, "Ok the next time I see you, we are going to the movies and not having sex."
You have to be firm about what you want and not let him control you. Say you want more to your relationship than just sex. That is not a crazy request, in fact it's totally normal.
But the situation's not going to change unless you are really firm with him about what you want.
I would want more to any relationship than just sex, too. Sex should be an expression of a full relationship, one that involves all kinds of stuff & hanging out & talking & doing stuff, not Just sex. You are worth that, don't let anyone tell you any different

Good luck :)

Answer 2

Sounds like you enjoy sex together but not much else. Where is this bond you are talking about? Just get together with him and when he wants to have sex tell him you don't feel like it. Tell him you'd rather go for a walk, talk, watch a movie, anything but sex. See how he reacts to that. His reaction will tell you alot.

Answer 3

well it's ur fault cause u encourage his behavior. stop having sex w/him.. instead of u always going to his house to meet up w/him, start meeting up w/him in the park, at a restaurant, at the mall or something.. call him and say lets catch a movie, or catch a bite to eat and see what he says... now if he doesn't change then leave him and find someone else that's not gonna use u for sex.. because basically that's what it is...

Answer 4

you need to tell him how u feel that u would like to go out every now and than instead of having sex everytime
you should sugest going on dates together so he could get to know the real u
if he has a problem with that than maybe you should not see him anymore cause it seems he is using u for sex now do u want a guy who wants u for sex only ?or do u want a guy whos not only going to have sex with u but love uand go out with u ?

Answer 5

Well, it's like why should he do anything differently since you always give in and be his little fucktoy? You tired of it, hon, you're gonna have to tell him straight out. And when you do, he'll be gee oh doubleyew en. GONE. 'Cause he does not give a rip about any part of you but your bottom. Grow up, girl, he's using you like an animal. Dump that creep NOW and find a real man!

Answer 6

time to start seeing other people. If he can't handle it tell him you have tried talking to him but he just gets an attitude. Sex is great with the right partner but it seems like he is taking you for granted. Go out and she a movie by yourself you never know who you might meet.lol

Answer 7

well, if you and him have nothing in common other than sex, it is way too simple. Just tell him I am sorry but I don't want to have sex. If we aren't compatible in anything else than maybe we shouldn't even be together. After all, it sounds like he is simply using you to fill a need and you are too immature to figure out that you are simply being used.

Answer 8

You just come right out and tell him that you are not going to have sex with him everytime you come over. Guys don't get it unless you actually come right out and say it.

Answer 9

Tell him that you want to do other things, if all he wants to do is have sex? then move on...you can fidna better guy taht jsut a sex-o-holic

Answer 10

your just a piece to him. if your after money, look for someone else. most guys will take sex if offered.