I hate guys and blow them off every time one asks me. I find things more important then dating/love life. And I seem to have a like of Yuri/Yaoi. And I've once imagined myself maiking out with a girl. O_o does this make me a les?
2006-08-18 14:58:16 · 21 answers · asked by Someoneyoudontknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
But at the same time I'm attracted to guys. >.< This is so confusing.
2006-08-18 15:00:07 · update #1
you are a bi-sexual you want the best of both worlds
2006-08-18 15:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by luv2bawitch 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how old you are, but I've also experienced confusion about my sexuality. Alot of it was down to simply being afraid of intimacy.
I used to be so contemptuous towards guys and treat them like crap, even though I was actually attracted to them. I had to learn to stop being so defensive & start letting my guard down a little. I was just afraid of a guy treating me bad/ not understanding me.
I don't think you're necessarily a lesbian. Maybe you are. But I think it's more likely that you are just struggling to relate to people - which is normal. Alot of people struggle with that.
I'd recommend the book "Changes that heal" by Dr Henry Cloud - it's really good for showing you some of the issues you have that cause you to keep people at a distance.
2006-08-18 15:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not too sure that you are desiring to be a lesbian. I think its mostly curiosity, that seems to rattle you. Id say, follow your instincts, how much is your curiosity toward other women? Some women think other women are sexy and beautiful, but they are not lesbians, but again most women think that. So i wouldnt be too concerned about that. But if you must, then try it out with another gal, and you'll know from that point. Maybe you are bisexual, and thats ok too, but, if you get a boyfriend, be sure to let him know right off the top, I think you'll find his response surprising.
2006-08-18 15:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your a little curious and may even have intimacy problems.
Sometimes if you ignore attractions or don't let yourself explore relationships you start living inside your head which causes some doubt on your own sexuality.
Your not necessarily a lesbian, but you might need to explore and let yourself be with men and women to figure it out.
2006-08-18 15:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like to me like you may be leaning more toward lezbian
since your blowing off guys and you keep imagining yourself making out with other girls but hey, there's nothing wrong with that!
2006-08-18 15:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by christina j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it dose not mean U are a lesbian.I think you don,t like unauthorised sexual relation with any one or any matter which will related to your personnel life.So you are avoiding the guys because you have feels attraction to guys so you are not lesbian . i think you are indian girl and it is also do to culture.
2006-08-18 15:17:13 · answer #6 · answered by linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UmMmMMm if that's what u wanna be.Maybe all those guys that have asked you out aren't your type.Maybe one day a guy that you really like will come along and you will live happily ever after.
2006-08-18 15:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by famousgirl202 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There may be a chance that you are bisexual. No big deal. But you could just be bicurious, i think we all our. Some may just not admit it. Its not a big deal at all. Embrace it...your perfectly fine!
2006-08-18 15:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by bresorley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you identify the reasons why you hate guys? Maybe you have enough reason...
2006-08-18 17:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of blowing them off start blowing up guys
2006-08-18 15:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by cheenarca 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how many women you go with and how many men ? if i slept with 50 women and tought about 1 man but would not want him. it dont make me gay
2006-08-18 15:16:14 · answer #11 · answered by chris c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋