When it comes to telling a guy you like him, you look up answers and everyone is so wishy-washy with it. Write him a letter. No, don't! Tell him in person. No, don't! Ask him out. No, don't!
What are you supposed to do? What has worked for you in the past...? /: I mean, c'mon. What are you really supposed to do in this situation? This is downright CRAZY. o_0
Thoughts?
2006-08-18 14:56:10 · 5 answers · asked by Slippers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what you're saying, Gypsy C, but everyone says this is good, then someone else counter-acts it. For every pro a con... I just wish there was a way to do it that wouldn't have someone at the end saying, "OMG, DON'T!"
2006-08-18 15:17:46 · update #1
as a guy, i wouldn't want a lot of 'cutsie' letters or beating around the bush with small-talk and dropping hints.
Just talk to a guy, and tell them straight out (without scaring them).
"oh my ghodyouresogorgeousandiwannahaveyourbaby"!!
(bad way).
"You know, I kinda dig you and would like to get to know you better".
(good way!)
2006-08-18 15:10:06 · answer #1 · answered by jon_r_patrick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You come here for suggestions and you could get 100 different answers it's up to you to decided which will work best for you. Nobody here can tell you how to live your life and make sure everything will be fine 100%. Take a chance on what sounds good that's the least you can do right?
>> Sorry to say but there is no easy answer. I'm sure your a smart person so your just going to have to make a smart choice and listen to what your heart says. Besides what may have worked for one person may not work for another. Size up the situation and try to figure out the best course of action for it.
2006-08-18 22:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Luna V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay considering the question I posted before and your answer (thank you) you may not believe me but this is what happened to me. She asked me out and we had an okay time and when it was time to go our seperate ways she asked me to spend the night with her.. Ten years we were together and we still are good friends even though we aren't together anymore (and it wasn't from me cheating)
The thing is I liked her but didn't have the balls (nerve) to ask her cause I thouht for sure I wasn't in her league not in a million yrs.. If she hadn't asked me it wouldn't have happened... Only you can size this up but I do not like asking girls out, am just hate it beyond anything imaginable. So if you really like this guy and he doesn't make a move I think you should ask him, at least that is what this guy would like.. And a lot of guys respect a girl that do ask.
2006-08-18 22:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I come to the truth i get the courage from my friends i concentrate on the person i love i give him or her a flower and some candy but thats too mushy right?
But its true telling someone you like him is part of your nervous system you got to build of confidence and tell him from the bottom of your heart
2006-08-18 22:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very straight forward, if I like a guy I ask him out on a date. I've had men who accepted and men who said no. It doesn't hurt to ask.
2006-08-18 22:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋