i'm heartbroken. the group of friends i usually hang out w/ at school just told me they don't want to hang out w/ me anymore. i'm in a small school and don't know what to do
2006-08-18 14:33:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
bah forget it man, this same kiddie crap happend to me in the 7 th grade. all of a sudden the kids i was in elementary school with and were friends with all of a sudden believed i wasnt good enough for some reason when we went to HS.
Once you are out of school it is a whole new world out there. and High school is suddenly very unimportant. Im 33 now and have many good lasting friendships that ive kept for many many years. and i look back at Highschool as a very brief period and unimportant time of my life.
My suggestion find one good friend.. perhaps maybe another "outcast" ... i guarantee you that that friendship will become more important to you than the supposed "friendships" you just lost. I was able to find that one friend myself in Highschool we are still in contact to this very day and still good friends. As for the others that were my friends that ousted me from their group.. so what!, it wasnt until your question that ive even spared them a thought in nearly 20 years
2006-08-18 15:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a few years' time, when school is behind you, you won't even remember the people who you thought mattered so much to you. People come and go from your life all the time, and it's really not as big a deal as it seems right now.
But for now, no matter how small the school is, there are still people there other than that group of friends, so give some other people a chance and they just might give you one. Just keep being you, keep being proud of being you, and then you'll know that whatever happens, it happened for the right reasons
2006-08-18 14:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by synchronised_pickles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are they acting this way? I guess you should find out what the problem is, and try to work things out with them. Maybe you said something that upset one of them and they all found out about it. Perhaps you lied about something. It's hard to say what's up with your friends. You're just going to have to find out and try to work it all out. If none of those are the problems and they're just being brats, then honestly, you are better off without them. I know it can be hard making friends in a small school, but I'm sure there are more kids, where you live, that are your age, who will like and accept you for who you are. Good luck.
2006-08-18 14:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should try to do if you want friends, you should just make friends with some other people that are nice and like hanging around you for the way you are, not by the way you look. By the way, I think those friends weren't worth being friends with.
2006-08-18 14:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you must have done something to make someone mad... Maybe you should just find a new group of people to hang around with. Besides...it isnt the end of the world if you dont have that many friends...you will learn this when you grow up and get into the real world.
2006-08-18 14:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Sondrahhh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's easy to "follow the pack" becuz you want to be liked, but from what they said, it sounds like they weren't very good friends in the first place. If any one of them really was a true friend to begin with, she'll come back.
Here are a couple of articles that will help you:
** http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2004/12/8/article_03.htm
** http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2005/8/22/article_01.htm
2006-08-18 14:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by Psalm37-29 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go after them, it will make you look desperate for friends. its hard now, but you will make new better friends that actually care about you and your feelings. chances are they will miss you and come back. question is do you want to be friends with people like that? Hang in there!!
2006-08-18 14:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by ☠Naz☠ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else to hang out with it doesn't have to be from your school it could be around the neighborhood. hope i helped! :)
2006-08-18 14:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by definitivamente06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be open to be friends with EVERYBODY. also, people might LOOK like they have lots of friends, but they don't so u could be their friend. ALSO, find friends outside ur school
2006-08-18 14:39:44 · answer #9 · answered by meowie711 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it
if you did nothing and they still reject you tell them tou piss off and find new friends
even if not at school maybe around the neighborhood
2006-08-18 14:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sevi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋