my older cousin is in her 30's and she is not married anymore, wants kids but doesn't have one yet. She's jealous of me cause I go clubbing, hit bars and she doesn't. She the athletic type but doesn't do the things I do...I feel she's distracting my life..what should I do?
2006-08-18 14:32:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why would anybody be jealous of going clubbing.. if she has no kids then so can she.. why don't u just invite her w/u when u go? if she's distracting u then why not put her on ur list of hi and bye cousins....
2006-08-18 14:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your older cousin has extreme subject concerns interior of her. She's unhappy along with her life, and can't stand human beings round her being satisfied. you're nevertheless your standard self, so which you do no longer would desire to alter something to accomodate her. you're doing issues to make your self satisfied. while, she's clueless what to do to make herself satisfied. notwithstanding in case you do no longer bypass clubbing & hit bars, she'll nevertheless be unhappy. as a results of fact she is purely dealing with some sort of melancholy. notwithstanding, be gentle & supportive to her for the earnings of her & your self. If she likes clubbing & hitting bars or concept so it relatively is relaxing, enable her connect then you definately to be sure for herself. She wish it & ultimately have her own life. Or she does not like all of it, and there is no longer something for her to be jealous approximately. She envys you for being so chilled out, and he or she prefer to calm down too. help her see that it is an argument of time for marriage (returned) & little ones. She would desire to steer a happier extra advantageous life than before. it's going to make her extra captivating to seize suitors. somewhat than sulk all day & scare adult males away. in case you think of you are able to no longer cope with the stress of "coping along with her" & affecting you notably, then bypass away her on my own for awhile and/or to somebody credible to assist her alongside.
2016-10-02 06:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by scillion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a 'her' problem. If she's causing drama spend less time around her and the problem will go away for you both.
2006-08-18 15:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wh is she jealous?? do you flaunt yourself??,, try talking to her and invite her out...show her some of the places you go to,
2006-08-18 14:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by hykerchik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Her loss that she didn't get her as* up to do any of those activities.
2006-08-18 14:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to get a life and adopt a kid!!! stop thinking about it!!
2006-08-18 14:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋