He is 23 and wants to have sex with a girl he likes I dont him no..and only when you are out of my house can you make decisions like that.you have no job,no car no life...
2006-08-18 14:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
well, thats good idea that you say it to him, but in the other side just free him he is 23, in that way when he is out of ur house he can forcely find a job, for his family, man is like that when they reach in mature age they want to have there own family to have a stable and sex.
2006-08-18 14:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jed Alex R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
S word? are you sure you are old enough to have a 23 year old son?
talking to your son like that is probably damaging his mind. Hes an adult, should be making his own decisions and you quite frankly are going to have to learn to butt out of some of his affairs. You need to encourage him to find a job but not use his lack of one against him.
2006-08-18 21:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, the best way to handle this is to educate him. Most likely if he's seriously thought about it enough to come to you for advice, he's going to do it anyhow. He's legally an adult - and of an age where I wouldn't be too concerned about his interest in sex...so educate him about safe sex, about the emotional repercussions of a sexual relationship, and if he doesn't seem to have decent knowledge of AIDS, STD's or pregnancy, give him a review on that as well. At least that way he'll continue to be comfortable coming to you for advice (and not hiding things from you) and is forced to think about things and be careful when he does choose to become sexually active. Think back to when you were his age - many of us didn't have steady jobs or reliable cars, but that doesn't mean he isn't mature enough to handle a sexual relationship.
2006-08-18 21:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by kansas8099 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's probably going to do it anyway. You have the right idea, because if he gets her pregnant he's going to be stuck with a huge bill he can't afford. I wouldn't let him do it at home, at least. I think it's time you kick him out and make him get an education or a job or something so he can afford to have his own place and to do what he wants.
2006-08-18 21:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 23! by that age people should have their own life! do i need to remind you the legal age for sex is 16. You can only raise your child so far...
2006-08-18 21:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kieran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 21 so how can you have a 23 year old son. You need to turn your computer off, box it up send it back. Your to stupid to own a computer.
2006-08-18 22:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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He is 23 and still asking you about Sex? He is going to do it regardless of what you think he should or shouldn't do...
2006-08-18 21:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an adult. He can make his own decisions.
2006-08-18 21:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me bang him out. he'll have a good time. I'll clean the sofa myself, no worries.
2006-08-18 22:00:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋