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My heart broke on Monday when my wife ran away from my home without telling me taking money and jewellery. Life is tough and i am just sitting on bed and eating bread and milk. It is painful. When it will get healed?I mean how many more days/week/months?

2006-08-18 14:26:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

18 answers

CONTINUE EATING BREAD AND MILK IT WILL TAKE ONLY FEW DAYS.

2006-08-18 16:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1 0

Very sorry to hear what has happened. When a relationship fails with a spouse, you respond psychologically in a very similar way that you would to death. Most people enter a grieving period that can last on average between 12 and 18 months, depending on the individual. The healing process takes time, but there are things that can help/hinder the process. It is important to think about good and bad times you have had with the person. If you concentrate on only the good, or only the bad, the healing will take longer. There are five stages to this process, which do not necessarily occur in order: Denial, Bargaining, Anger, Depression, Acceptance. Hang in there, and if it feels too much, make sure you go and see someone who can talk to you, face to face, and give you some reassurances. It will get better!

2006-08-18 21:41:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First: Sorry to hear things are so bad for you. Being dumped always SUCKS. You can put no time on healing. It depends on how much you loved your wife. Enjoy the fact that you are a bachelor again, do nice things for yourself, hit on girls way to young for you and hang out with your friends... all the stupid stuff your wife would never approve of. Maybe, in time (and I cant say how long) you will start to feel better... GOOD LUCK

2006-08-18 21:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by iluvafrica 5 · 0 0

People say time will heal all wounds. I say time WELL spent heals all wounds. I KNOW it has for me...whenever I get sick and tired of being sick and tired, and start getting things accomplished, I swear I feel better. Things that were once always on my mind and in my heart, get moved off stage, so to speak. When I am involved in worth while endeavors, my life seems to fall into the right place...I hope you get squared away, friend. I'll say a prayer for you when I sign off. I promise.

2006-08-18 21:32:30 · answer #4 · answered by I am Sunshine 6 · 0 0

Though your wife has gone ,you can eat bread and milk instead of searching her.Perhaps you know where she has gone.If in fact you want her back, you should contect her with arequest to return home, but firstly you should be sure as to whether your wife has any male-friend ? If yes, instead of searching for your wife , you should think to get your money and jewellery back , and for it, best way is to lodge police complaint. Wish you good-luck.

2006-08-18 21:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm sorry what your going through. You have to just take it one day at a time then weeks come then months. But as time goes by your heart will start heal. I know it seems like forever. But believe me your heart will mend. Just keep your faith and that will pull you through. Tell yourself everyday that I'm going to feel better! Best of luck!

2006-08-18 21:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0 0

Sitting on bed and eating bread and milk do not substantiate that neither your heart is broken nor it needs any healing touch.

2006-08-18 22:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by mkm 4 · 0 0

Iam very soz bout ur problem i know some1 else who went through the same problem,da way he sorted it was to marry another women worth givin his heart to!!!To b honest wid u, ur heart healing time is in ur hands if u direct ur mind on somethin else important to u it could b easy but if u keep thinkin bout ur problem then ur heart can never heal!!!

2006-08-22 16:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hirisha S 1 · 0 0

I think that totally depends on the person, I can't imagine what I would do if that would happen to me, If it did, I would try to talk with someone close about it, it would probably greatly help, Maybe she just needs some time to think things through, If you would like to talk please let me know, I would be willing to listen. Best of Luck!!!

2006-08-18 21:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Thats a question no one could answer except to say time heals alll wounds.

2006-08-18 21:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

To make the pain go away faster, keep telling yourself that somebody who loved you never would have done something like that - you're better off wthout her.

2006-08-18 21:38:30 · answer #11 · answered by dd17 1 · 0 0

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