My son just informed me he has had this problem for years.what could be wrong?I want him to have a good sex life when he gets married.
2006-08-18 14:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Brandi87 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
HE PROBABLY GOT TOO USED TO TAKING CARE OF HIMSELF AS QUICKLY AS POSSIBLE. THIS IS A COMMON PROBLEM. IT COULD BE CAUSED BY DRUGS, ALCOHOL, MEDS, OR ANXIETY.
9 TIMES OUT OF 10, IT IS AN ANXIETY THING. HE PROBABLY LOST IT ONCE WHAT HE DIDN'T WANT TO, AND NOW HE FEELS INADEQUATE AND HAS PERFORMANCE ANXIETY. HE FEELS LIKE THERE'S SOMETHING WRONG WITH HIM. THIS IS A SELF-FULFILLING PROPHECY.
GUYS LIKE PORN BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO ONE TO DISAPPOINT, AND IT'S ALL ABOUT THEM. MAYBE HE GOT TOO USED TO THAT, AND REAL WOMEN INTIMIDATE HIM.
TELL HIM TO AVOID PORN AND WHEN HE STARTS MAKING LOVE TO HIS LOVER, TO FOCUS ON HER PLEASURE AND DON'T EVEN WORRY ABOUT HIS. TELL HIM TO PLEASE HER IN ALL WAYS BUT INTERCOURSE. GET HIM A BOOK ABOUT ORAL SEX AND THE G-SPOT.
TEACH HIM HOW TO APPROACH SEX WITH THE "HOW AN I PLEASE YOU" ATTITUDE, KNOWING THAT HE DOES NOT EVEN NEED A PENIS TO DO THAT.
HE JUST NEEDS A FEW SUCCESSES WITH PLEASING A WOMAN TO BUILD UP HIS CONFIDENCE.
2006-08-18 14:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm good straight question. the answer is simple -- have him connect to a loving, lovely young lady --his age and possibly more mature than him -- then all problems will disappear. the penis is not a yo-yo instrument -- it acts the way one feels about himself -- but also acts the way the other partner shows genuine love. voila. hope it helps.
2006-08-18 14:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by s t 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any drinking, drugs, or medication? If not, then he needs to see a doctor and find out what the problem is.
2006-08-18 14:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, thats good that he told u that, that means u have an openess in your family, well tell him that get a girl friend, then try to have to watch a porn make it atleast 3 time a week, so that his organ will not be dormant if he don't exercise it!
2006-08-18 14:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jed Alex R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What!!! How is it that you know this kind of thing about your own son! Doesn't this seem a bit inappropriate to you?
2006-08-18 14:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by lindagreendogs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that he told you that is kinda creepy-sorry but its true!!
2006-08-19 01:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Zak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a Doctor...NOW!
2006-08-18 14:40:24 · answer #7 · answered by Vera W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too stress in life
2006-08-18 15:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by 185 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mother knows best!!!
2006-08-18 14:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww he told you about this?
2006-08-18 14:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by ]P ]I[ ]M[ ]P ]I[ ]N[ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋