First I must tell you that I think it is funny that you told your man not to watch porn. Do you really expect people to do as you say? Life doesn't work that way. Sorry to be the one to tell you this.
Men are visual creatures. They get excited by what they see. That is just a fact of life. Men will always want to see naked women (if they are straight).
You may not be fat or ugly but you are insecure. If you weren't, this wouldn't bother you.
And if your friend's man ran off with a stripper, they didn't have much of a relationship. The other woman could have been a teacher and he would have still left your friend. This is about your friend's relationship problems not the other woman job.
2006-08-18 14:24:30
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answered by momma dog 4
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There is no ease answer for your question, but I'll say this. Whores, strippers and porn are the oldest perfusion in the world. Some girls do this to pay for school, it pays the bills. So far as you not being so fat, what is fat a size 5,6,7,14,18,20. this is all in the eye's of ought people. Ugly is in the eye's of the beholder. One thing you can do so to keep your man from looking somewhere else, of course this is a mans point of view, which I am. always remember, men love a LADY out in public, but a whore at home in bed and that goes for girlfriends,fiances, and especially for our wife's. If for your next time that you find your boyfriend watching porn, try watching with him, then do what she is doing with him it mite be go for you and him. this just mite change his mind about watching porn and spend more time with you and maybe make some porn of your own, so he may watch it at a later time, with or without you. this wouldn't be as bad as if he was watching some other lady like yourself. Don't worry! they already know thier whores and don't care what outhers think, but one thing is for shore, they are also jealous of a real lady, that why they are called whores. So if I were you, I would relax and wait for the right man to come alone. There's alot fo men out there that feel the same way you do. I hope that after reading this you may feel alot better.
p.s. write back after you read this and let me know if it help or not.
2006-08-18 22:23:18
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answered by icupee*/2794=\? 1
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Why do you put "whores" & "strippers" & "girls in porn" all together like there is no difference? Sure some of them may be ALL three ......But not ALL of them? And how do you blame the fire on the matches??? (relationships) are ruinned by the people in them.....not by ANY one else. I'm not saying that you should LIKE strippers-whores-or porn- just understand that there is a difference ...... THEY know what they are-and they must live with themselves- isn't that punishment enough???
2006-08-18 21:26:35
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answered by budlowsbro420 4
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What the f***, quit blamin, on what u call whores and strippers, When it's obvious that u have 2 blame others for ur failures w/ relationships & the way u look! I SAY, then, GET UR FAT, UGLY *** OUT OF THE FRIDGE THEN & Do something about it? ONLY YOU CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE w/ urself. Oh, And porn, what's wrong w/it. U ought to try it, since u propably can't get urself off 'cause u think ur so ugly & fat, maybe the porn will. Least the people in the porn scenes, can't see ur sorry, pathetic ***! Hate to be u! & so do u. OH 1MORE THING GET THE AVATAR PICTURE OF UR NAME, IT'S OBVIOUS U R NO WAY EVEN CLOSE 2 EVER LOOKIN LIKE THAT. LET'S SEE THE REAL YOU, YOU CHICKEN ****. DON'T HAVE THE BALLS
2006-08-19 20:41:23
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answered by waycrazyme 3
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Did you ever think it's the kind of guys you choose? Not all men are like this and uh, the guys are the ones doing this. If a woman flaunts it and a guy goes for it that's about him not about her. And what's with the fat, ugly thing? It's not about looks on the outside believe me.
So your fiancee' was watching porn behind your back and you told him not too? Uh, are you the boss of him? I am going to assume you are just angry and you aren't really like this.
Give these men responsibility. Obviously they weren't ready for certain committments and acted out. The relationships were missing something.
2006-08-18 21:17:30
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answered by charmingchatty 4
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Bossy people annoy me. Especially those telling others what they can & can't do. Why can't people just let other people do their own things. I'm not some miserable person that interferes with other peoples lives. But bossy people must have pets to teach 'obidience' when they're not telling someone else what to do.. I wish there was a nice way to tell bossy people to dry up & blow away! I'm stayin away from bossy people! Perhaps you should stay away from people you don't like. I know it's hard sometimes ~ bossy people, like strippers & whores, are everywhere. Now I'll just see if I can find a stripper or a hooker while I avoid bossy people! ;)
2006-08-18 21:30:19
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answered by Anonymous
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I understand your frustration, but it is a moral issue. Seek out someone with stronger respect for the female gender. But don't blame the women as much as you blame the men, your screen name should really be "I Hate Men Who Like Whores". These women would not do any of this if men weren't paying, watching, enjoying, etc.
2006-08-18 21:13:25
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answered by ? 6
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Sorry to say this, but boys will be boys. I let my husband look at porn because I know he's gonna do it anyways. It doesn't bother me. But if it bothers you, then your man should respect that. Hey, men can be whores too, you know.
2006-08-18 21:29:42
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answered by MoMoney23 5
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I am a 43 year old woman...
I don't blame the ladies...afterall...if the men didn't want them...didn't go see them...there would be no prostitutes, dancers or porno queens.
Why does it bother you for your husband to watch porn????I don't mind watching them...they are exciting...they can offer new ideas.
My hubby looks at women all the time...as long as he is only window shopping I don't mind. I have even bought a lapdance for my husband before.
I see no point in getting upset over something I really have no control over...If he cheats, I will leave...but until then...I'm not sweating the small stuff.
2006-08-18 21:18:59
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answered by Chris 3
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A woman who degrades her self like a whore does is not worth worrying bout. If your man is a real man he won't want a woman who can offer him nothing but a dirty hole. Secondly i think some people enjoy acting out their desires or experiencing them in a voyeristic way by watching. There is nothing really wrong with enjoying those images once in a while. On a personal note my cuz is a whore, she ruined a good marriage running around on her man. she ruined her whole life and possibly the life of her 3 babies. I think it is sad when woman only focus on one aspect of themselves and don't celebrate all they have to offer. Basically its ok to express your sexuality, by doing a few dirty deeds, but getting really dirty (like ******* everybody, or needing to watch porn and strippers often) is ridiculous, and pathetic!
2006-08-18 21:18:15
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answered by TR 4
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