I've just been to a strip-club. I feel so dirty. Is it so wrong?

Question

My girlfriend asked me not to go and I didn't want to, but the peer pressure was immense and the next thing I know, some blonde was sticking her shaven haven in my face. Should I feel bad?

Answer 1

Did you enjoyed it?

Did it made you feel good?

Well stop feeling bad! If you think that it is wrong just stop doing it, it´s not such a big deal.

Answer 2

No not so wrong...

If single thats what strip clubs are really for... for to make single guys feel better as lonely...

You have a girlfriend so feeling a bit guilty not as it was a strip club but as looking at other girls...

Id say u in the dog house but a good girlfriend should be more cross at the boys...

This happens so you not so wrong as you really didn't want to go for it.

Its not as though you were groping the strippers and taking phone numbers.

But getting the missus to believe thats is the tricky part.

Maybe pay for her to go out with the ladies to see a male stip join... even the score.

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Sex is not dirty and there is nothing wrong in stripping or strip joints as long as the girls are willing and well treated and looked after...


It also empowers girls... you seen how much they can earn?

What you got is the guilt as shes jealous thing going...

A really good girlfirned would realise you got pushed into going and it was not that fun as she is much better then the strippers...



Show on the other foot if I had a girlfriend would I mind her seeing a male stripper?

Er no as long as she did not go off with him and leave me...

its just some fun and gets the girls horney and wild. Would make her fun to be with and hugs and cuddles are not what you get with a stripper.


Plus I would not mind if sister was ione as long as treated nice thats it

Answer 3

Don't feel bad. Feel good because you felt bad. It's a horrible seedy business and there's nothing wrong with feeling a bit uncomfortable because someone is being paid to find you attractive! - that's basically what it comes down to - don't dwell on it though. Just mark it down to experience. Some people love that ****, some don't. Personally I have more respect for people who don't

Answer 4

You ARE uptight and insecure. and controlling. he did NOT take your children there OR beat the crap out of you so acting like your father doing that justofies you telling your husband he can't attend a bucks night at the strip club is MORONIC> Seriously you stalked your husband? he was on a bucks night. If THAT is not insurcure, crazy and controlling..i don't know what is. You give the rest of us females a bad name. shame on you. If was him I would leave YOUR azz, I would have opted to not come home. you are controlling, manipulative ( blaming your father actions to not look insecure and controlling IS manipulative- threatening him with "don't come home" IS manipulative. I feel sorry for him. I really do. he deserves a medal for staying there as long as he has. you stalked your husband and took photos on a bucks night..doesn't get any more insecure, and pathetic than that. so indecsure you were checking bank records online hoping for a HINT of where he was? smh ** edit, way to go being the crazy broad that ruined everyones night with crazy drama..They will be remebering you pathetic crap for YEARS to come.. . seriously grow up

Answer 5

Maybe....but as far as I'm concerned, you shouldn't feel bad about actually going to the strip club. What you should really feel bad about is a) going to a strip club when you girlfriend asked you not to, and b) being unable to stand up to peer pressure when you KNEW that your girlfriend would be upset with you if you went.

Answer 6

Okay! Well you're not going to like or agree with this response, but, yes, indeed, you should feel "bad" over your behavior, but not for the reason that has to do with you, but with your faith in God.

Any act of immorality--especially acts of impurities--are grievous sins, and should be avoided with all your power and strenghth.

If you're a young man (I have the impression that you are), then it's probably a given that you don't have much of a religious foundation.

Since I'm not going to lecture you about this, let me just leave you with a thought, which I hope you will ponder seriously all your life.

What do you do when you have a headache? Toothache? Or any other kind of pain? If you're like most of us, you will seek immediate relief from your pain, and, generally, relief is very simple to acquire. Bottom line, then, is that all humans seek relief from pain, because we can't tolerate it on a constant, unending basis.

But, if you live your life in such a way as to lose your eternal salvation, you will suffer for an eternity in hell. Eternity is incomprehensible to us humans; we simply can't fathom it. It's like trying to count every grain of sand on a mile long beach shore! It simply can't register in are brain, the enormity is so great!

Anyway, you need to think on this, because at the end of your life, God is going to judge you based upon your deeds and your contrition (or lack of it) for the offenses you made against Him.

I have never met a single person who said he would chose to live a life on earth in unbearable pain, yet we choose that very pain for an eternity, because we don't believe that God would condemn us to such a fate.

In fact, God doesn't condemn us to that fate; we choose it by the way we live our lives!

So, again, yes, of course, you should feel very bad for having offended God that way.

On the other hand, you shouldn't become depressed over this, as, by your very question to Yahoo, you've recognized you may have been wrong, and God chose me--among others--to answer your question. Hopefully, as you mature and grow in true faith to God, you can answer this type of question for others yourself!

Best wishes...joey

Answer 7

I think you already answered that question. And by that, you really don't deserve to have a girlfriend. You have some issues to resolve as well about how you would handle future situation say, if you're married. I understand you're young and male and enjoying some t and a, but at the expense of someone who might care for you. Peer pressure is a bull story, you made the choice, you enjoyed the show, you suffer the guilt. :( :( :(

Answer 8

Yes, you should.

You lied to your girlfriend.

I mean, the rippers, who cares, but would you lie to your girlfriend on a daily basis?

Tell her the truth. You will feel better. She shouldn't break up with you but she'll be mad.

When she gets over it you'll both feel better.

If she doesn't get over it then you will have just avoided living an unhappy lie.

Answer 9

there is not right or wrong in this its entirely how you feel as a person, most of my male mates love going to strip-clubs or lap dancing on a special night out, and have been told that the shy ones come out of there shells a bit. But one guy mate hates them and wouldnt be seen dead in one and will not go at any price just put it down to expericance and forget it dude! and dont feel bad

Answer 10

Some say yes, some say no,
Once you started it, it may be hard to stop,
It happens, it happens, and you cannot stop your pressure from happening...

Think what'll happen if you didn't go...
Good news :~ I didn't go... Bad news:~ I regret not going...
Think what'll happen if you go...
Good news:~ I did go... Bad news:~ I feel bad...(really?) <- not this one... ->My gf will be sad/mad for ignoring her...<-(maybe)

But it was first-time experience... You just wanted to see how's it like... What you wanted to do here-on afterwards is entirely up to you... because you can't always keep on going... there's always a red light to tell you to stop...

Answer 11

Noo. You shouldn't feel bad if you did nothing to be ashamed of. Both men & women go to see strippers and (Even though I have never) once its done in a mates night out capacity its ok. Though if you find yourself going back again and again alone..... then maybe its getting a bit sad.