He told me that he loves me, and do love him,he tries to spend time with me.
He can't leave his wife, she is gonna give him his legal residence here. They are gonna move to another city, he wants me to go with him, but I think that is not a good idea. He told me that he is gonna give me an apartment, but that is not important. I really love him, but I don't wanna hurt no one, especially his wife, because I know she loves him. I know I have to leave him, but I can't, because when I don't call him he does do it. Please help me.
2006-08-18 13:52:22 · 19 answers · asked by ema 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he just wants to pop your cherry
get real girl - the guy is a jerk off
2006-08-18 13:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving this guy the best of both worlds. He is telling you that he got married for residence purposes and then you mention that his wife loves him and would be terribly hurt. Listen to yourself, these two do NOT add up. He is MARRIED. Period. This is a formula for disaster, and usually the 'other' woman gets the short end of the stick. Be strong and break it off. What goes around comes around. You are a better person than to participate in something that can cause someone else hurt, including yourself. Good luck.
2006-08-18 20:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to go any where. If he will cheat on her and they are married he is going to do you the same way. He wants to get what you have and go. He might tell you he loves you but will he love you when you move to where he is and he ends up leaving you because he is finally happy with his wife or someone else, you have to think ahead. Just giving you somethings to think about.
2006-08-18 21:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by ibcookn04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... I know that you are in love but he is married and his wife loves him he must not love you all that much if he is marrying somebody else. He kisses her he makes love to her he will have children with her. You are just the other woman. It maybe hard to let him go but it is the right thing to do. You will find a man who wants to be with only you and will dedicate his life to you. It will take time to get over this guy but you will and you will move on and you will find true love when you least expect it.
Good Luck
2006-08-18 21:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth it!! You are going to get your heart broken HE IS MARRIED!! How would you feel if your husband had a woman on the side and was getting it from another woman. If he can't leave his wife why would you want to give yourself to him? It's not worth it sweety you may love the man but he will never be all yours! That is what you have to look at don't you want to give yourself to a man that wants to be with you and wants to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you? These are things you need to look at! If he was my husband and I found out you would be one dead woman I know that for a fact! Just think about how you would feel if it was your husband!
2006-08-18 21:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by Chrissie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I am to say might hurt you, but honestly, i don't think he really loves you soo much... men are like that, in the beginning they make you really really feel special and loved, but only until he has convinced you to give yourself to him... then slowly he will begin to change, hold on to yourself a little while, tell him that if he really loves you, then both of youmust first wait for the time when he is already free, think about it, if he can't be loyal with his wife, it will be hard for him then to be loyal to you... just a thought...
2006-08-22 03:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by blue_raven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a virgin and you want to give it up to a married man that does not plan to leave his wife? Girl, if he really loves you, it doesn't matter what predicament he's in, he would leave his wife. your virginity is something quite special and should be given to someone that loves you and willing to commit to you and only you. I think there are a lot more fish in the sea to go after.
2006-08-18 21:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by carissa t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT just give your virginity to a man who has only married for a legal residence. he dosent WANT you he wants your body. please dont be fooled by this man. he is trying to get you in bed & is sleeping with his wife as well. you DONT want to catch something. he may well be seeing other girls as well. save yourself for the man who will love ONLY you.
2006-08-18 21:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy sounds like a jerk. maybe he just wants the thrill of being the first to have you. dont fall for his bull ****. find someone who really loves you. i was 15 yrs old when i met my husband and he was 19yrs old. he respected me and we waited to have sex until we got married when he returned from viet nam. we have been married for 40 yrs. kids grandkids dogs cats horses the whole family deal is great. respect yourself first, good luck with your life.
2006-08-18 21:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by donna c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going nowhere. The problem is you like the attention he gives you. If he is cheating on his wife with you he will cheat on you. Move on you are wasting time with him!
2006-08-18 20:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to hurt his wife?...what do you think your doing now?...him using this wife, to get him there legally, should tell you something about his character...not someone who'd really give a **** about you...he's a user...use your head and say goodbye....
2006-08-18 21:07:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋