ok, i found out from the guy i like that my friend who told me all this stuff about him was lying! my friend told me that the guy i like thought that i was ugly and he told me all this other stuff the guy i like said about me. when i talked to the guy i like who is one of my best friends, he said he never even talks to my other friend about me and i know he wouldn't lie. should i confront my lying friend or just leave it alone and decide not to talk to him about anything i need an honest opinion about?
2006-08-18 13:48:37 · 19 answers · asked by emilyy40193x3babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should talk to her about it. Ask her why she lied to you and if she likes him, maybe she's jealous. Maybe she was talking to the wrong guy, I know I did that once with one of my friends new crushes that I didn't know. (How embarissing! Now I pay attention) Don't start a "cat fight" though. I know you may be really mad with her, but if you guys are really good friends, try to work it out. I know how you feel because its happend to me before and I ended up losing my best friend and I kind of regret it. Sure she lied, but maybe you guys can have worked things out. If not, just leave her behind and don't worry about it because if so, shes not really your friend.
2006-08-18 13:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by starry_vamp12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should talk it out with Ur best friend and think who u know better. if she has never lied 2 u in tha past or ne thing like that thn u should trust what hesaid. but if she has lied to u but u dont know him very well, u should get a lie detector test done so u can tell who's lying.( j.p.) but just trust ur instinct. if ur friend gets all defensive like "What r u doing? Im not lying and u know im not." and u just said are u sure he said i was ugly then most likely he was lying. whether he was jealous or not doesn't matter unless her envy got n tha way of yallz friendship then u know who ur real friends are. a real friend would never lie 2 u if they were jealous cuz a boy liked u and they did 2 then they should have told u nstead of lying 2 u about that stuff. Confront thm and ask if thay like u or if thay just like u as a friend cuz people do crazy things when they're n luv so confront him and then 4give him. and let it go.
2006-08-18 14:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Copy Cat Grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well could be just gossip, I would let it go for now..... ignoring won't get you any where. If you honestly think they would lie you you just straight up confront them (in a nice way) and even if he lies about lying you'll be able to tell....
don't worry so much;) good luck!
2006-08-18 13:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by BlondieJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is for the three of you to talk on one table. remain calm, and ask without offending. this way, there will be no "back-biting" since all people involved are present in the talk. also, if ever your friend spill out that she really meant to tell you all those lies (and you can see in her face she's sorry), forgive her and tell her that this will be the last time she will make up stories since it will never bring good. give her one last chance since everybody deserves a second chance to start all over again.
2006-08-18 13:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by tweetytweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay this is what i think... i think you should confront them both to see whos the one lying to you... because it can be option 1 or 2 either your friend likes your man or your man is trying to cheat on you with your friend. I think you should confront them because one of them is not being totally honest with you...
2006-08-18 13:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly most relationships proper with an arguement once in a while. How you recover is key. Lots of kissing and touching always seems to do the trick. Remember that tongue means "I value your friendship", but T&A say "I really don't want to fight anymore, you're one of my best friends whom I care a lot for."
2006-08-18 13:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by sargenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How weird the samething happened to me, my friend had done this many times so I stopped being friends with her and we never spoken since. So if this is not the first time and u think me might do it agian, i would say END IT. Hope everything works out, please choose me for best answer.
2006-08-18 13:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should be the bigger person and just let it go. If this person really lied to you then he is not your friend. Perhaps he told u those lies because he secretly likes you. I dont know.
2006-08-18 13:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely confront her then you may find out she had a good reason 4 doing it, or she may just be a rude lying jerk!!! i got an award @ my school (lonngg time ago!) 4 BEST advice! So i hope u choose me 4 best awnser! :-)
2006-08-18 13:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by megmeck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i doesn't contact that guy. That guy doesn't owe you something to allow you to recognize the reality, and besides you'll merely be embarrassing your self in the front of a guy who did not understand you adequate to stay far out of your lady. no longer in uncomplicated words that, yet you're in uncomplicated words digging for info that you actually do not even opt to entice close the info of. Who might want to? you recognize something went on, inspite of if it wasn't sex. you do not opt to entice close each and each of the info and drag out this undesirable feeling you've. merely relax and go away it on my own.
2016-11-26 00:52:56 · answer #10 · answered by dalhaus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋