Why is it that if a guy rejects a woman because he doesn't feel attracted to her because she is younger than him, she gets mad and curses him? What is so wrong with dating who you like and how do you get those women that are so infatuated with you to get over it and move on?
2006-08-18 13:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by nvsweets2006 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well try being real with them and don't ever play any games with their feelings, be true and honest ...all will be well ....peace
2006-08-18 13:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty goes deeper than appearance and attraction and they curse because they feel rejected and not quite a beauty for you.
Women do not act on desire and try to play the game to wait for the man to make the first move. I would not curse but it is like well we dint have a chance by the package. Infatuation is the imagine what if you can get that hansom man and people say wow how did she get him. Was it for her beauty or was it for her mind. The idea of a date seems like a chance to get to know you or the chance for others to say does she appeal to his intellect and not just his eyes. I remember when Janet Jackson did the Nutty Professor And a fan cried Oh my God we have a chance! A beautiful talented person can see the inside person for a loving real relationship. My Mother said pick a hansom man for good looking children. Have you ever heard a man say he rather naw off his arm than to wake next to you. The man was not a prize but he said that about me. I feel he would feel pretty good....if....he only knew.
2006-08-18 21:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure that out and you will be a very rich man.
Seriously, let her down gently. She may still be mad / angry / upset. That's OK. She is entitled to her feelings. She is not entitled to make you miserable, though. Most of us will go off quietly into the corner, lick our wounds, maybe call up a friend and complain about men in general and possibly even you in particular. But we will get over it. The few of us that don't, well, all I can say is just stay the hell away from them. It's unfair to you, but, in the long run, it will be better for you. Out of sight, out of mind. Be the grown up, take the high road, and resist the temptation to tell everyone what a psycho bi*** she is. She'll find someone else to torment eventually.
2006-08-18 20:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Christina D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fix her up with someone else. lol. Ok as a woman being in this situation before there really isn't that much you can do she has to come to the realization on her own that you aren't interested. Just make sure you don't give her any mixed signals to make her think you are interested in her when you aren't. If she has any brains she won't wait on you forever but she may wait for what seems like forever. I waited for one guy for a year and was prepared to wait another year but that was the longest i was willing to wait. Anyway luckily someone else came along then and I had the good sense to give him a chance and now we are engaged. good luck.
2006-08-18 20:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by snail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have explained to this Girl that you are ready to move on and she does not seem to want to let you do, then you need to be very Honest with this person and tell her to leave you alone. Have witnesses there also at all times. This person may be crazy and may try to hurt you through the Police or any other was she can. Watch Out!
2006-08-18 23:43:48 · answer #5 · answered by SecretUser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no dude, just move on! Don't try to figure it out, you will NEVER be on the correct side of this.
2006-08-18 20:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋