Im really nervous. I just started high school and we have to take showers in gym! In Junior High we didnt!?

Question

Im nervous cuz im not as developed as all the other boys in my class and im nervous that they are gonna make fun of me in the shower cuz im 14 with a 3 1/2 penis and erected its 4 inches but still i have very little pubic hair and hardly any armpit hair! What should i do?

Answer 1

Every person is different and everyone matures at different times. Everyone there has gone through the same thing as you. Just be calm, cool, and collective. Everything will be fine and you are all guy and they will all understand. And dont be ashamed. Be yourself and dont worry about what the others think.....good luck...I wish you the best!!!!!!!! =)

Answer 2

Dont worry about it. Many other guys are just like you, even older ones in the high school locker room. I was kinda' late myself. To make matter worse, with my light hair - everywear, my pubes never really showed well until I was late 16 y/o.

If anything, just work out with some weights. a sharp looking guys upper torso will be of envy on the other guys want to be the same. Be the goal setter...

Answer 3

If anyone makes fun of you, ask them why they are checking you out anyway???

Don't worry, nothing changes in the adult world. I have a nice body, but some of the guys I see in the shower after the gym are fat loads, and NOT attractive at all. But that's OK, I'm glad for them that they are working out.

Don't bend over to pick up the soap, you'll be fine.

Love, Jack.

Answer 4

I can understand your concern but take heart, everyone else is feeling the way you are now. Not everyone has a perfect body and especially at the age of 14. Please don't be so self concerned and just let your body develops as it does. At your age teenagers can be cruel as those of make fun of others are just trying to hide their own inadequacies.

Your body will grow and most likely before the year is out. Just take a deep breathe and hold your head up high as everyone else is worrying about their development also.

Your feelings are very normal.

Answer 5

Man I wish we had showers when I was in middle school. You're pretty lucky. My high school had them but not my middle school (in California).

Answer 6

NO BIG DEAL. SO YOU'RE A "LATE BLOOMER". SO WHAT? I AM SURE YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY ONE. AND AS FAR AS SIZE....WHO KNOWS HOW BIG YOU ARE WHEN YOU'RE HARD UNLESS YOU GET A HARD ON IN THE SHOWER. IT'S DIFFICULT TO JUDGE SIZE WHEN FLACCID, BECAUSE THERE'S "GROWERS" AND "SHOWERS". GROWERS ARE SMALL WHEN FLACCID, BUT GROW MUCH BIGGER WHEN ERECT, AND SHOWERS ARE LONGER WHEN FLACCID, BUT DON'T GET MUCH BIGGER WHEN ERECT.
SOME GUYS HAVE LITTLE BODY HAIR AS ADULTS (WHICH I LIKE) AND SOME GUYS END UP LOOKING LIKE APES.
IT'S ALL RELATIVE, ANYWAY......

Answer 7

if nu have stalls then wear ur towel to the shower and if u dont then get in early and get the corner shower w/ ur towel around u on ur way there and back

im 16 and im only 6.5 erect

Answer 8

You dont HAVE to shower. Just bring extra deodorant and maybe wash your face off with some water.

Answer 9

whenever nervous do deep breathing Eat/drink milk,pulses,beet root,fruits salad or juice,veg salad or soup,
Discontinue Liquor,Non Veg,Chillies,Sour,Cold drinks,Heavy undigestible food.smoking
sometimes fasting is also important
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You have to regular in prayer,yoga,meditation,swimming,any suitable exercise,
You should make one doctor friend for regular advise
Avoid drugs as far as possible bcoz of side effect
laughter is the best medicine

Answer 10

You just haven't had your growth spurt yet. I'm sure there are tons of freshman just like you.