You will go on whatever day God decides, whether it's the 22nd, 27th, or the 12th of Never.
Ooo, I just now saw the rest of your post. Trust me dear, it's NEVER WORTH IT. How do I know? I tried it, and thank GOD failed.
Talk to your parents, friends' parents, school counselor, school nurse, whatever, and see a Dr ASAP.
The problems you have now will not continue on forever. This is something that teenagers feel so strongly, that their problems are their doom forever. The FIRST thing I learned after my suicidal stunt was that one's problems change, they will never be the same forever. And you know what? You will mature and be much stronger, and you'll be able to handle a lot more, and much better.
Please value your life enough not to end it.
2006-08-18 13:07:57
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answered by Dolores G. Llamas 6
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I don't know what your dillemma is, but trust me, there are some of us who have been through a TON of sh.it in life and still look forward to seeing the sun every morning!
Hold off for a while--things will improve and turn themselves around. It can't get any worse from here can it? Things can only get better.
Besides, do you know what will happen to you if you kill yourself? Nobody really does. We don't know if hell exists or not, but do you want to find out the hard way? Maybe you will reincarnate as some sadistic child's pet as a punishment for taking your life. Who knows? But I don't think anything good will come of it in the afterlife.
Besides, you got tons of people here that are willing to talk you through any problem you are having--millions of friends worldwide at your fingertips!!
And though I do appreciate and encourage your cry for help, be careful who you cry to. Threatening to kill oneself can land you in a psychiatric ward for months, which is akin to prison (no rights and all freedoms taken away including clothes and makeup), for your "own good".
2006-08-18 13:16:05
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answered by Ana 5
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That is the most selfish thing a person could ever do !!! Do you love your mom & dad ? Your friends , pets, any one in your life that is close??? Well think about what that would do to them... do you want to ruin their lives, do they diserve that? I know you are in pain right now but nothing ever stays the same, aren't you curious about what your children are going to look like and what a great husband you could have some day? well if you end it you will never know and your mom will never have grandchildren... think about it , and your dog will look for you every day thinking you left him and did not care about him any more... how selfish... Fix it , not that way, go to a doctor and ask for help to feel better not to ruin your family's life.....Good luck... you can do it, be strong , there is alot to live for....
2006-08-18 13:20:13
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answered by ? 4
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If you're considering suicide, search for counseling and help NOW. Try to think not only of yourself and the problem that is worrying you so much to think of such a desperate thing. Think of all the people that love you and that you would hurt deeply if you did die, your friend and you mom, for example. We ALL go through rough times: loss of loved ones, broken relationships, illnesses and such. But the difference with us, survivors, is that we don't let the circumstances crush us. If you're so depressed and desperate as to consider something like this, I recommend that you stay with someone you trust, so that this person will not let you do something stupid.
2006-08-18 13:18:44
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answered by CRNananana 1
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Now sweetie, why would you ask a question like that?? What could be going on in your life that is bad enough for death to be a relief?? If it's that bad, you should seek some help/support from someone.
I'm not kidding, you shoud maybe try doing this differently in your life like changing friends, chaning venue, changing something so you don't have those thoughts.
Life can be mean sometimes, but try no to let it overtake you. Feel free to e-mail me if you want to talk. I will pray for your strength.
2006-08-18 13:07:37
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answered by msjuliet2005 4
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well i thinkl you should die not of a friday, but on sunday, thats the beginning of the new week, it would be likle you already took care of all your responsibilies for the previous week and now starting a new one, but thats how i look at it, Now you shouldn't die, mainly because you didn't give yourself life, you were chosen by some unknown source to carry out this life-span in search of whatever, i have no clue, but you experience alot during your time and you should be grateful that you have the gift and alo you honestly don't know who might will miss you, you'll probably miss yourself , how much deeper does it gets. think it helps.
2006-08-18 13:11:38
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answered by adrian_2oo32000 1
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You should live because deep down, you are a good, beautiful person who is loved by many people. And because if you truly love your mother and your friend, and whoever else in your life, you will not put them through the horror, pain, terrible loss, and years of recovering that comes with the suicide of someone precious, especially someone's child. No matter what is happenign in your life, it will not be as terrible as watching from heaven as your family grieves and tries to understand and deal with your terrible loss. Please do not kill yourself, honey, just hang on and I promise you will get better. Pick up the phone right now and call your mother or your friend and tell them, or call a hospital or 911. You have so much to live for, please do not kill yourself and cause everyone in your life so much pain. And, baby, school isn't worth sticking a gun to your chest. It just isn't. Is it going to matter in one year or five or ten that you didn't get a good grade on one test, or if you weren't happy at school. Probably not. Don't you want to grow up and do all kinds of things? Driving a car, going to college, traveling, seeing the world, making friends, legally drinking, going to Vegas, falling in love, getting married in a beautiful dress at a lovely ceremony to the man of your dreams, having sex, mindblowing sex you always imagined, making a baby with the man you love, feeling that baby kicking and moving inside you, watching your belly grow round and hard, pushing your child into the world and holding it in your arms for the first time, watching him or her grow up in your image, and have children of thier own...
You have so much to live for honey. Don't give up.
2006-08-18 13:10:39
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answered by MissCongeniality 2
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aww you must be depressed why would you say something like that you should be on meds if you was not joking.But then again I know what you feel like you should let it out with some one you trust not your mom a good friend thats what I do when I'm down and out its so much good stuff on earth to I felt like killing my self about a million times But not anymore because my friend listens and can relate to my problems as well I feel much better when I'm done you should try it. It works.
2006-08-18 13:08:36
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to live because you are Loved. God Loves you, your Mother Loves you and so do I. We all Love you. Our lives would be a horrible void if you were gone. You need to realize one more reason. Only God knows what time of day that He will take you home. Only He can make that decision. So please don't think that way. It is not your decision on what day you go. It is only God that can make that decision. My Dear Sweet Nephew was killed in a motorcycle accident. He was only 17 years old. He had so much to live for. He did not want to leave us and be placed into the dark grave. We all stand over his grave and grieve. His Mother to this day cries for him. She said she would have Loved to see Rodney married and give her Grandchildren. Now all she has are the memories, She will take the death of her precious son to her grave. Be Strong and plan happy days. You are young and I want you to be strong. Usually after a person has made the choice , the survivors ask why? To me a person who takes their own lives are weak. Please be strong. Good things will come. It will get better. It says in the Bible, All Good Things come to those who Wait.
Then say: I can do all good things through God who will strengthen me. The reason you should choose to live , is for the ones who Love you. LIVE for YOUR MOTHER ! LIVE for YOURSELF. LIVE for the ONES WHO LOVE YOU. PLEASE LIVE.
2006-08-18 13:29:06
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answered by Norskeyenta 6
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Do not be so afraid of school, it is not that bad!!!
I guess I figured out your problem. School is great, especially once you get into high school, you will make a lot of new friends and you will get an opportunity to participate in interesting out of school activities and do various trips. You do not want to miss out on those. College will be the best years of your life. Hang on and you will see what I mean!
2006-08-18 13:05:40
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answered by sweetundina 4
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