2006-08-18 12:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by blondie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be the friend who's always at her side to help and comfort her. Be at the sidelines and always give her assurance that she can ran to you all the time.
2006-08-18 12:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by huggermugger4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Parent who lost a child 4 months ago. I would suggest being there for her, if for anything to give her a Shoulder to Cry on.
2006-08-18 20:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really tough. It's hard enough when it is an adult, but a child - that's just awful. I don't know if there is anything you can say to make her feel better. But make sure you are available to offer you support. She is going to be needing her family and friends more than ever.
2006-08-18 20:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by jtj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is going to be hard but you need to try to keep things as NORMAL as possible,do not spoil her do not do anything out of the ordinary. Be there for her and listen to her and maybe seek counseling for her if it seems to be causing her problems. My ex husband lost his best friend at the age of 5 and this is how his parents handled it. Seemed to work very well.
2006-08-18 20:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isnt anything to say, you havent experienced that kind of pain ( i hope not) so you have NO idea how she feels. Just cry with her and hold her hand and answer the phone at all hours of the night when she needs to talk.
2006-08-18 20:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by rebelgirl_5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my brother a year ago and there was not much that people could do or say to me that would make that ache in my heart go away. I quess just having people say they love me and that they are there for me was enough. I hope this helped u.
2006-08-18 20:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do or say will make her feel better at this time. Just be there for her. Support her, pray with her/for her. Listen to her. Hug her. Cry with her.
2006-08-18 19:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for your friend. Right now that is the only thing you can do. I don't know if there are words or actions that can help besides being there for them. I am sooooooooooooo sorry my deepest condolences.
2006-08-18 20:16:41 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE SUPPORTIVE, If you can COOK make a meal for the family let them know that you are so sorry for their LOST, AND YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE THERE FOR THEM, SAY VERY LITTLE JUST BEING THERE HELPS. LIKE MAYBE ANSWERING THE PHONE. ect... AND JUST PRAY FOR THEM.
2006-08-18 19:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to get her new friends i cant help unless i know how she was killed or e was killed i am vey sorry to i hope my answer helps
u can answer my question it is like yours
2006-08-18 19:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by shelbowelbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋