My friend is bi-curious but she likes me! and I am not bi-curious what shouldI tell her?
2006-08-18 12:41:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her i know u are bi etc and i take it as a high compliment im flattered...that u do like me BUT if u want me in your life as a friend please dont expect me to share your feelings and i say this nto to hurt you but becuase i am your close friend adn i will be here for u .ok? give her a hug then listen to her .. as u know friends 1st lovers then after they cant be freinds again usually.. it just dont work .. now on the other hand when girls get drunk and they kiss each other thats different as u have no intentions of going all the way //.// .
2006-08-18 12:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let here know how u feel about the situation sit her down and tell her u want to talk woman 2 woman and then say what u feel but not in a way that u would hurt her feelings but be plain and simple.also be prepared to answer any questions defending your grounds cause there will b questions.
2006-08-18 19:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by jarmall1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you are not bi-curious and don't like her that way.
2006-08-18 19:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by skris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell u just want to be friends. With hurting anybodies feelings or any thing like that.
2006-08-18 19:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Hispanic Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you told us.
If you still consider her your friend, and she respects your choice not to venture into bi-curiosity, continue to be a good friend to her.
2006-08-18 19:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it as you feel.
no point casuing stress to yourself and retain the friendship. or alternatively you could give it a try and its an experienced not easy to happen.
at least you're found the answer.
2006-08-18 20:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her about your position on this. For sure she´ll understando, if not... she never ever got your friend. Go ahead!
2006-08-18 20:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by Mauricio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, trust me it she is a real friend she will understand, Good luck!
Haliey
2006-08-18 19:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that ur flattered that shes interested but u dont go that way...u dont want to do that so u dont have to just tell her no nicely so that she isnt offended
2006-08-18 19:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same happen to me and all i said was "show me"
2006-08-18 19:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by ma_2st 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋