If you meet your Ex who has recently got married, and he/she looks terrible, should you feel happy or sad???

Answer 1

If he/she dumped you then hell ya
jump for joy
but otherwise no

Answer 2

I met my ex just before he got married & ended up being invited to the wedding. He looked great, really happy & his new wife was radiant.

We split very amicably & have always got along really well since. We have kids that need us to behave like adults so that is what we do.
The kids get along really well with his new wife & are very excited to hear that htere is to be a new baby soon.
I am very happy for them. I am still single because I am happy that way.

Answer 3

I really don't know, but I felt really happy when I last saw my ex looking really-really bad! I would have walked through fire for her before she cheated on me, gave me the clap, and spent my life's savings, so now when I see her looking like "ten miles of dirt road," I can't help but feel really great inside! Yay! It's the best!!!

Answer 4

rather lots in direction of the "happiness" end of the satisfied-unhappy spectrum. i assume some regrets if i ought to keep in mind them. yet so some distance, 70 years of a rather stable life. of path there is the question of "What would I even have accomplished in a various way?" however the difficulty is that the consequence of former movements would be wiped away! "If I had accomplished _____ somewhat of _____ my life would be diverse on the instant!" yet wait! "If i in my view had accomplished that throughout a various way...my little ones would on no account have been born, nor their infants, my grand infants!" So it relatively is in all probability a sturdy subject that the previous is previous and we will not bypass returned and alter it. (Any strategies in this, all people?) -- Dr. Bob

Answer 5

looks arent all that important, after all the person might be ill with a terminal illness, now that would make me really sad.
However, if he simply looked a mess cause he'd wasted himself, then...oh who am i kidding, i'd still feel sad cause s/he wouldnt listen when i had spoken to them about them not looking after themselves. (i feel this is the case with my current hubby, he is wasting away and i think i might have to move on...i dont think anyone else apart from someone who's mad in the head, will take him as he is...)
i dont like seeing people hurt, i'm perhaps a sucker in the eyes of some people, cause i've been hurt by an ex i had for 7 years as a boyfriend, then when his new girlfriend dumped him big time, with no explanations, he came crying to me, about her, it was awful!!! i still love dhim, and there he was crying over her. i was so confused but i learnt how to put aside my own needs to help him cause he felt suicidal and it seemed selfish of me at the time to nurse my wounds and not see to his desperate cry for help.
based on all of this, i wouldnt feel joyful at seeing someone else suffer, no. lastly, i always remain friends with past boyfriends, there's only one out of the 3 that i seriously dated who has gone completely AWOL cause he travels a lot and i did a bit myself. i always feel that because they'd shared happy times filled with love at some point in my life, they'd helped to enrich my life, and for that i'm grateful. Even if they served no other purpose than to help me learn something the hard way, i still benefitted cause i learnt something from it. I value friendship more than a short vindictive feeling of glee when someone else is down, u never know when you might need that person again, even if only for a shoulder to cry on yourself.

Answer 6

i feel happy about all my ex no matter what, why should i be jelous., she is ex coz i left ;)
and yeah if she was pain in the a** than you might feel sad for guy who is getting married with her :D

Answer 7

Yes

Answer 8

Happy.
Hands down.
No question.
Can't believe you had to ask, but it's OK that you did.......but what is key here is that you don't let on like you are happy about this, no, no, never, ever, gloat.......always take the high road, or at least appear to, be gracious, even concerned.......always leave them wondering.

Answer 9

You should feel sad, but unless you are a saint there will be at least a little element of joy in your heart.
It is called schadenfreude, and we are all subject to it from time to time.

Answer 10

The imediate reaction is to say it depends on the cirumstances that you split up but to be honest by saying she is your ex says that at sometime you had very strong feelings for her. In your shoes I would be sad.

Answer 11

You should feel sad. I would feel sad, even if the relationship ended badly; it just isn't a good thing to see someone you know in a bad situation. That's just me, I'm the nice guy.