do you think a lot of men are a bit gay?

Question

but don't admit it? when me and my friends mess around and get a bit drunk we act kind of gay! it's a joke for me but i sort of wonder about the others sometimes??

Answer 1

What's that movie commercial ... where the guy dressed up like a hot dog projects, "Ask me about my weenier!"

I really don't care about your weenier, man.

Answer 2

what do you mean "mess around"? Does it involve nudity and/or each other's penis'? You say it's a joke for you. What do you mean joke? I've never heard of a joke where guys get drunk and mess around. What's the punchline? Do you enjoy it even though it's supposed to be a joke?

I think guys may enjoy the physical contact with other guys, and not necessarily be gay. Guys could be having a lot of fun with each other if they didn't have such a hang up about being gay. Of course, that is what we are taught by our parents and society that men should only get physical sexual enjoyment with women.

I can hear the religious people already saying The Bible says men are not supposed to lie with men as they would with women.

They don't. There's not a woman in sight for miles. Men lie with women for pro-creation. When guys are with other guys, it's for recreation. Just for fun. Because it feels good.

I can understand why our parents and society are against being gay, because if it was accepted, I bet most men would not get involved with women and eventually the population would dwindle to nothing.

Answer 3

Of course, it is likely that without societization the spread of sexual preference executes a bellcurve. So, yes, lots of guys want to try being gay, but are too terrified to ever act on it -- which is really kind of sad. Most homophobes, in fact, hate gay people because they have desires themselves that they never dare even admit, say nothing less act on.

Regards,

Reyn

Answer 4

Any man that spends more than 5 minutes a day on his hair is probably a bit gay. But not as gay as you. You sound quite a bit gay.

Answer 5

im beginning to think there more men being gay then they want to fess up to or admit.. ok in locker rooms i see this men hitting men on as--es and they always want ot have a mans nite out and army well.. we has to be quiet about those things.. they have a rule dont ask dont tell.. you never know abotu ur best friend they act stupid when their drunk but perhaps a little bit curious

Answer 6

Blokes have a hard time expressing intimacy. Because its seen as effeminate. But you clearly really like your friends and they like you. When you like someone, its human nature to show affection, but this is at odds with your culture. You will probably find that all your friends except the closet gay(s) feel pretty much the same way.

Answer 7

I am sure a lot of guys are gay not think. But as far as I go and the guys I now there is not a gay bone in any of them.

Answer 8

You mean you're wondering about yourself!! All the 'what ifs' and the 'could I be' rather than your pals - don't palm off your own self questions on them!

Everyone goes through a phase like that lol

I'm sure you're a bit gay darling.

Answer 9

I don't think so ..But our culture discourages us from being emotional and sensitive..

You see.drinking loosens our inhibitions and as guys we become playful and more sensitive.like if your friends mom dies or he breaks up with his girl.......We aren't men if we are kind or gentle.?No way man ...
Not gay , just kind maybe liquor allows us to be who we should be any way ......
Women don't have the franchise on kindness and gentleness..It does'nt mean you're less a man if you show a little tenderness sometimes....
don't worry man .......It's all good......

Answer 10

I can't remember the study, but i remembering reading that it found 10% of men are gay

Answer 11

Yes, 0% on to 100%.