calling me and treating me like her boyfriend. she is nice, and i enjoyed the night we had, but i don't know how to tell her it was just a sex thing?
2006-08-18 12:20:01 · 28 answers · asked by tom k 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
no it's ok, i wore a woollen penis cover the whole time, and she wan.ked me with a rubber glove. i don't think I'm going to be a parent.
2006-08-18 12:30:46 · update #1
That's what you get for a one night stand. Tell her the truth and don't lead her on.
2006-08-18 12:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by maxie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tom when you sleep with a girl that you know well and she knows you well its not a sex thing, its a trust thing. She trusted you enough to want to become more than whatever you used to be and now that you are going to toss everything that has led up to this point makes you look and seem like a scumbag. Now she will think everything has just been a ploy so you can get in her pants and it will hurt her feelings and create distrust with you from her and all of her friends. My advice is tell her that you do like her and she is obviously beautiful but you are just not ready to rush into anything to serious. That will help you keep it casual and not be such a scumbag even though you kinda are one right now.
2006-08-18 12:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by scottwatras 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice to know that things don't ever really change. When males and females have sex, the man is always assumed to have taken more out of it than the women. Even in this age of equality. If we turn this on its head, we could say that the girl took advantage of the boys sex drive in order to try and create a relationship. In this day and age why should it be assumed that sex = relationship.
2006-08-21 11:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you would like just a one night stand, you should have discussed it with her first. Just tell her how you feel but be gentle about it. She probably has her emotions all twisted around the issue and it is best to help her untwist them one piece at a time. Tell her that what you did was great and all but you feel like it all went too fast. Ask her to start out again by being a friend. If she is agreeable, then, without hurting her feelings, convince her that you are not the man for her. Key advice: Take your time.
2006-08-18 12:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by tigris321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw! Poor thing! Next time this happens...make sure you clear that up before you have sex. It makes things alot easier. As for what to do about this girl...tell her that you like her a whole lot, but that you're not looking for a relationship right now. She'll be hurt, but she'll get over it. Lying to girls about things like this is what turns girls into psychos....so just tell her the truth and get it over with.
2006-08-18 12:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her!
Tell her you are an insensitive, chauvinistic pig who thinks that women were only put on this world for your sexual gratification! Please make sure that her father and brother are nearby to hold you while she slaps you within an inch of your life!
You are a spineless creep that sees women as only pieces of meat to "have your way with". When you grow up and realise that girls are people too, then you will be ready to be part of the human race!
2006-08-18 12:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the future, anyone you want a one night stand with should be told BEFORE you have sex. It's called honesty. Now suck it up and tell her nicely before it gets ugly. That's called being a grown up. Also, pray your 'sex thing' didn't result in a 'parent thing'. Live and learn.
2006-08-18 12:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should've told her before it happened, girls dont like to hear "its a sex thing" afterwards. We need to know that before, then we can make up our minds whether we want to go through with it. Also how do you know she isnt constantly calling you just to get more of the same? I have a mate who I sleep with and we hang out as buddies all the time as well, its no big deal.
Well you've made your bed... lie in it
2006-08-18 12:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decent thing to do is be straight, the easy thing to do is to go out with her until she realises you aren't the man she thought you were and dumps you.
But then, what if you are just denying the fact that you have fallen really hard for this one and it scares you so much you just can accept it.
2006-08-18 12:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by xenobyte72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with RED ......you should have been very open about this situation before you slept with her but you knew if you did she wouldn't have put out in the 1st place....shame on you. if we do come back here after death I hope you will end up being a female so that you can experience the male species. shame shame
2006-08-18 12:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by ghipsee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve whatever problems you get for taking advantage of her. When will men ever learn? You were very selfish. You owe her an apology, not a cold shoulder. Brat.
2006-08-18 12:26:56 · answer #11 · answered by ©2007 answers by missy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋