My ex. bestfriend exposed all of my information about my sex life to my mother and I was pissed!!!-- I mean if I wanted to my mother to know about my sex life then I would have told her myself right?!?!?-- She went behind my back and just told my mom everything. I thought that was soooo grimey!!!-- And then she had the nerve to have a nasty attitude towards me like I had done something wrong. I mean I would never tell parents about her life. I'd tell them to ask her!!! right?!?!?-- I mean wouldn't you?!!?-- ****!!!
That pissed me off!!!!
So. To the ppl of Yahoo! Answer's!!! Give me your answers and let me know what you all think asap!!!!!
2006-08-18 12:11:03 · 12 answers · asked by ***Toya*Baby!*** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you should find a new best friend.
2006-08-18 12:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by naughtybabyjesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your friend did doesn't sound right. But maybe she had a good reason for telling your parents.
Are you being out of control? Are you sleeping around a lot? Having unprotected sex? Not respecting yourself or your body?
If so maybe she felt she was doing right by you even if you don't see it that way right now.
Maybe she loves and cares about what is gonna happen to you if you keep on this path of self destruction.
Maybe she doesn't want to see you die from a sexually transmitted disease like AIDS, or get hurt from some player, or end up pregnant.
If this is the case you should thank her. She may have just saved your life. And that is being a good friend.
You may not see that now. But in time you will thank her. I would want my friend to look out for me if I was being stupid and out of control when it came to sex.
I know a true friend never tells secrets to anyone else. But in certain situations if a persons secret may kill or harm them then it should be told.
If this is not the case then maybe you did something to piss her off. And she felt this was the best revenge she could get on you. Which would mean she never really was a true friend.
As for the nasty attitude maybe after she told your parents and you found out you gave some attitude of your own towards her with or without realizing it. Which is understandable.
I'm sure you are angry and hurt and you have every right to be. Because you feel you have been betrayed.
I'm sure she feels awful about telling on you...
Especially if it is because of you being out of control when it comes to sex. And if this is the case then she did it with good intentions. The intentions of saving you from a life of misery and possibly from dying at a young age from some disease.
If this isn't the case then she never really was your friend and you don't need her.........
2006-08-18 20:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by rockn75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely betrayal! Find yourself a new best friend because this one has no clue as to the meaning of the words!
Nobody who calls herself your best friend has any right to inform your parents about private information that you yourself haven't told them: obviously there was a valid reason why you chose not to tell them and she stepped over a line by betraying your confidence.
The fact that she now has a nasty attitude really takes the cake! It is your perfect right to be extremely angry w/this "friend." If she can't understand why you are, and why what she did was wrong, then I would wonder how she could be your friend at all.
You are in the right...completely...and I wouldn't be surprised if you felt you could not ever trust her again with anything.
2006-08-18 19:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the key question is WHY did she expose you? Are you having sex without protection and she's concerned about your safety? Was she trying to get you in trouble because she was mad at you about something? Or did one of your parents just start asking her questions and she didn't want to lie? If she did it just to cause trouble for you, then yes, that would be a major betrayal. Maybe when your parents started asking her questions, she wasn't thinking quick enough to respond with "why don't you ask her." She might have acted nasty afterwards because she was embarassed about betraying you. Or maybe she's had some changes in her life that are making her act this way??
2006-08-18 19:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur BEST friend told ur mom bout ur sex life well thats like stabbing u in the back. If she did that get better friends, u dont deserve friends like that.
2006-08-18 19:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Hispanic Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she did was the right thing, but in a very bad way. Well, maybe your parents will hook you up with birth control pills. OH, and ditch the b-t-h.
2006-08-18 19:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by subjex@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, sounds like your ex friend needs to watch her back...SERIOUSLY! If not because of you, she is going to run her mouth one too many times for someone! Then she will figure out the real world!
2006-08-18 19:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by mom_of_4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your friend in the first place she wouldnt have done that. Dont get back at her, shes useless..
2006-08-18 19:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by Riah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not a friend, thats an enemy. Get rid of her, she needs to do some serious growing up !
2006-08-18 19:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by yvonne p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not even right! She wasn't even your friend! Do something about that girl! I'd kick her a**! L
2006-08-18 19:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Ben h and Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋